03/12/2025
National Grief Awareness Week 02/12 - 08/12
✨Understanding Continuing Bonds in Grief✨
Many people feel comfort in talking to their loved one who has died, visiting a special place, holding rituals, or simply feeling their presence in everyday life.
This isn’t “living in the past.”
It isn’t unhealthy.
And it is not a sign of mental illness.
🧠 Grief research has shown this for decades.
Klass, Silverman & Nickman (1996) described continuing bonds as a normal process in which the bereaved stay connected to the person who died.
We often carry them inside us — through memories, conversations, inner guidance, or symbols that help us navigate life after loss.
This internal connection is not something to “stop.”
For many, it is an essential part of healing.
Later research (Stroebe, Abakoumkin, Stroebe & Schut, 2012) confirmed that maintaining a bond can be helpful, healthy, and deeply meaningful — depending on how the person experiences it.
💛 Grief is not one-size-fits-all.
Some people grieve through talking about their loved one.
Some grieve through talking to them.
Some find comfort in rituals; others in quiet reflection.
All of these are valid.
🕊️ A gentle reminder:
We never know what someone has lived through or what helps them survive their hardest days.
If something doesn’t resonate with you, that’s okay —
but please remember that it might be someone else’s lifeline.
At JaksWorld, we honour every person’s way of grieving.
Judgment has no place here.
Compassion does.