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Break free from unhealthy or unhappy relationships to feel secure, loved and confident and heal past heartbreak and trauma with the Epic Love Method

As human beings we all crave love and connection. Sadly, we do not live in a world that provides healthy role models or teachings about how to love in respectful, lasting and compassionate ways. The sole purpose of Love With Clarity is to provide knowledge, insights and tools that gently guides us towards a deeper understanding of how to love, let ourselves be loved and create loving and lasting relationships - with others and ourselves.

15/11/2025

Feeling Like You’re Walking on Eggshells in Your Relationship? (There’s Hope!)

Do fights with your partner leave you feeling anxious, insecure, and like you’re constantly on edge? You’re not alone! Many amazing couples struggle with emotional triggers.

The good news? You don’t have to live in this constant state of frustration! There’s a way to stop feeling like a ticking time bomb and build a stronger, more secure relationship.

Introducing my masterclass: “Triggered by Love.” In this powerful training, you’ll discover:

⭐️ Why you get triggered in the first place (hint: it’s not always your partner’s fault!)

⭐️ Actionable steps to transform your emotional response and stop feeling hijacked by your feelings.

⭐️ Powerful tools to communicate effectively and build deeper connection with your partner.

⭐️ The secret to taking back control of your emotional experience and creating a calmer, happier relationship.

Here’s the best part: This transformation starts with YOU! ✨ You don’t have to wait for your partner to change.

Ready to stop feeling triggered and start feeling loved?

🔥DM me “TRIGGERED” to sign up for this masterclass and take the first step towards a more fulfilling relationship! 🔥

This could be the missing piece you’ve been searching for. Don’t miss out!

With Love, Marlena

12/11/2025

DM me ‘THE1’ to answer the following question:

🔥Are you ‘The One’ for me? 💔

My latest course is perfect for you if

💎 You are in a relationship and you have doubts about your partner. You wonder if they are right for you but you are not sure why you’re feeling that way and you want to find out.

💎 You have doubts about your partner and you are wondering if that’s your instincts telling you that you’re in the wrong relationship.

💎 You’re in a relationship that looks good on the outside but something just doesn’t work for you but it’s hard to leave because you have no real reason to leave.

💎 You have been with the wrong partner and want to avoid making the wrong partner choice again.

💎 You want your partner to become ‘The One’ and want some guidance on how to make that happen.

DM me ‘THE1’ to find out everything you need to know about partner choice and whether you’re with the right person or not.

With Love, Marlena

11/11/2025

Add your own example! 💕 It is completely natural to sometimes struggle in your relationship.

What is not healthy or helpful is to struggle alone it to tolerate the situation without putting in adequate effort to find a solution that works.

Your relationship is too valuable to waste!

It deeply impacts your health, your wellbeing and your happiness.

Your relationship should be and can be a source of tremendous support and joy in your life.

But not many of us were taught how to create deep connection and lasting intimacy.

When we begin to sense any sign of disconnection, we can fall into (unconscious and) unhelpful patterns of the past that lead to a lot of conflict, drama or withdrawal.

That’s when our relationship starts to whither away and relationship doubts begin to consume us.

But it doesn’t have to be that way!

I help my private clients to uncover the cause of their relationship challenge, implement practical, proactive and empowering solutions that work just for them and their partner and relationship doubts once and for all.

If we find that they are in an unhealthy relationship, we develop a customised healing strategy and an exit plan together.

Whatever it is you’re struggling with, you are not alone and help is available for you.

DM me ‘1-1’ for more information on how we can work together.

With Love, Marlena

10/11/2025

What is a valuable lesson a past relationship has taught you? Let me know in the comments below ⬇️

I invite you to work with me to heal heartbreak or to support your through your unique relationship challenge.

Letting go can be a painful process - but you don’t have to do it alone.

You deserve to be chosen and loved for who you are.

If someone is unable to do that, then they are not the right person for you.

How do you know if someone cannot truly love you:

💔 They’ll choose drama and conflict over connection.
💔 They don’t prioritise you.
💔 They make decisions without you as if you didn’t matter.
💔 They have unrealistic expectations and need you to meet them instead of loving you for who you are.
💔 Their insecurities will dominate your relationship and you’ll feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them.
💔 They are unwilling to see how they contribute to a relationship problem and instead blame it all on you and thereby make you the bad guy while feeling hard done by.

These are not healthy dynamics.

They stop you from feeling safe and being safe for each other, connecting, building a solid foundation for a shared life and being each other’s source of comfort.

Let’s figure out together what you should do next.

🔥 DM me ‘1-1’ for more info on how we can do that 🔥

With Love, Marlena

08/11/2025

Do you want to find out how to prepare to leave your relationship without guilt, overwhelm and regret?

🚪 DM me ‘LEAVE’ to find out how to leave a relationship you’ve outgrown or that simply isn’t good for you without feeling guilt, overwhelmed or going back and forth.
💥 DM me SOG to find out about the STAY OR GO program and identify the exact cause of your relationship doubts and problems so you can fix what doesn’t work or leave knowing you did what you could 💥
❤️ If you prefer to work with me, DM me ‘1-1’ to get started with a customised and highly effective approach that brings you clarity, healing and strategy that works in real-life relationships ❤️

With Love, Marlena

07/11/2025

A healthy relationship allows both partners to grow. In fact, both partners inspire and encourage growth.

This needs to happen so that we can fulfil our potential as individuals and as a couple.

A lot of what happens inside a relationship present us with an opportunity to grow and evolve.

If we go round in circles, experience the same problems again and again, it means that we are missing the lesson.

So when your relationship experiences the same recurring arguments or problems, ask yourself this:

🤔 What is this trying to teach me?
🤔 What skills or mindset do I need to develop to handle this situation differently, more positively, more constructively.
🤔 How do I have to grow to achieve what I want to achieve?

These amongst many other questions help us to feel more secure in our relationship and to become our best selves, individually and as a couple.

If you want to become secure lovers, develop the strongest and most secure relationship that you can have, then I invite you to join the SECURE LOVERS program that will teach you exactly how you can transform into empowered and secure lovers.

DM me SECURE for more info.

With Love, Marlena

06/11/2025

If you can relate to any of the following, you are probably a relationship overperformer:

✅ You attract takers, selfish people or those who are childlike, passive or emotionally immature

✅ You do all the heavy lifting in your relationship (solving problems, making decisions, organising your lives etc.)

✅ You have a can-do attitude, are hard-working and aren’t afraid of effort and discipline.

✅ It’s easy for you to take responsibility and often feel guilty if you can’t help others.

✅ You are seen as a leader or someone people can go to for help and support.

✅ You can’t stand disappointing others or inconveniencing them and so don’t ask for anything unless you absolutely have to (which is pretty much never!).

The problem with being a relationship oqerperformer is that eventually you will get burnt out.

You are also likely to attract more one-sided and unhealthy relationships that leave you feeling drained, insignificant and depleted.

If you want to experience a more balanced relationship (no matter if that’s in your current situation or a new one!), it’s time to figure out how to create a healthier dynamic in which you matter too!

No stress. No guilt. No pressure.

Let’s figure this out together!

🙌🏻 DM me ‘1-1’ for more info on how we can work together and schedule regular weekly sessions to tackle this once and for all.

With Love, Marlena

05/11/2025

I invite you to work with me to heal heartbreak or to support your through your unique relationship challenge.

Letting go can be a painful process - but you don’t have to do it alone.

You deserve to be chosen and loved for who you are.

If someone is unable to do that, then they are not the right person for you.

How do you know if someone cannot truly love you:

💔 They’ll choose drama and conflict over connection.
💔 They don’t prioritise you.
💔 They make decisions without you as if you didn’t matter.
💔 They have unrealistic expectations and need you to meet them instead of loving you for who you are.
💔 Their insecurities will dominate your relationship and you’ll feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them.
💔 They are unwilling to see how they contribute to a relationship problem and instead blame it all on you and thereby make you the bad guy while feeling hard done by.

These are not healthy dynamics.

They stop you from feeling safe and being safe for each other, connecting, building a solid foundation for a shared life and being each other’s source of comfort.

Let’s figure out together what you should do next.

🔥 DM me ‘1-1’ for more info on how we can do that 🔥

With Love, Marlena

04/11/2025

Having doubts about your relationship is hard.

It’s difficult.

It’s painful.

It’s confusing.

You need an answer to stop all the worrying, overthinking, feeling disloyal and guilty.

Or maybe you know that you’re justified.

You know that your partner isn’t good for you.

And maybe you’re still not sure about what to do.

“Should I Stay Or Should I Go?”
 That’s the question so many of my clients come to me with.

Together we figure it out.

We identify

💥 if you’re actually compatible or if a dealbreaker has been swept under the carpet
💥 if your personalities, values and life goals match
💥 if you actually want the same type of relationship
💥 if you’re trapped in a Doomed Dynamic
💥 if you can’t emotionally (or intimately) connect
💥 if an inner love block stops you from making things work

Plus more!

DM me ‘SOG’ to join me in figuring out what to do next.

Because you deserve to be happy and to feel loved ❤️

With Love, Marlena

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01/11/2025

Work with me to tackle your unique conflict challenge!

💥 recurring arguments that don’t get solved
💥 emotional reactivity
💥 needless drama
💥 getting overly triggered

DM me FIX to start working with me to bring back the love.

With Love, Marlena

31/10/2025

Stuck in “Should I Stay or Should I Go” Limbo? Get Clarity Now!
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Remember when you first met your partner? Doubt and worry weren’t on the agenda.
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You envisioned a secure, loving relationship. But now, here you are, plagued by uncertainty and questioning everything.
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Maybe you even know deep down that leaving is the answer, but something keeps you tethered. That “something” can be confusing, leaving you feeling frustrated and down on yourself. You might even feel silly for knowing what to do, yet being unable to do it.
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You deserve peace of mind. J
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I invite you to join the STAY OR GO program to gain a deeper understanding of what’s keeping you stuck. My 4-phase assessment unveils the root causes of your unhappiness:
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Are you truly incompatible?
Is your relationship toxic?
Why has intimacy dwindled?
Is it something you’re doing?
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Understanding these factors empowers you to heal and move forward - together or apart. No more guilt trips or self-doubt!
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Embrace Clarity! Take Action Today!
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❤️‍ DM me “SOG” to learn more about my STAY OR GO program
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👋 DM me “LEAVE” for a FREE masterclass on drama-free breakups!**
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💕 DM me “1-1” for a personalised relationship clarity session with me to get to the bottom of what’s wrecking your relationship faster.
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With Love, Marlena

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Love with Clarity is a secure base for men and women who struggle with codependency, insecure attachment and CPTSD which stop them from having the loving and healthy relationships they crave to have with themselves and others.

Here we focus on:

recovering our ‘lost’ selves

making sense of our struggles

breaking out of our codependent conditioning

earning internal security and secure attachment

fostering genuine self-worth and self-esteem

developing a healthy relationship mindset

learning healthy relationship skills

We do all of that so that we can finally feel safe, happy, loved and confident within ourselves and our lives.

We are unwilling to give up on ourselves and surrender to our codependent conditioning that robs us of vitality, authenticity and connection to ourselves and others.

We are healing so that we can get the love we need - our own - so that we can begin to let love in from healthy and safe others.

We are done with unhealthy relationships, self-neglect and self-abandonment and are ready to take responsibility for our own happiness and peace of mind.

I created Love with Clarity because I needed a community like this when I worked through my own issues with toxic relationships, low self-worth, codependency, relationship anxiety, insecurity and abandonment fear.

I needed support with learning how to be with myself, by myself and take care of myself. I knew that I couldn’t give up on myself, that I was unwilling for codependency to waste the rest of my life too but I just didn’t know how to get healthy, how to learn to love myself and how to be healthy in my relationships. I simply didn’t know what that meant.

It took me many years to figure it out and cost me a lot of time, stress, heartache and money, but I now know exactly what it takes to go from codependent to connected, from fear-based to loving and from unhealthy to healthy.

I want you to benefit from everything I have learned and save yourself a lot of time too and so I am sharing with you what I have learned and invite you to also work with me 1-1 or participate in my challenges, masterclasses and courses.

Because you can turn your life around!

You can be happy!

You can feel good about yourself!

And you can get the love you need!

And then, only then, will relationships feel like you know they can feel: soothing, supportive, loving, nourishing, intimate and fun.

I’m always here to help and connect with you.

⭐️ If you want to work with me 1-1 please go to marlena.love/connect or send me a direct message ⭐️

💕 If you want to address a specific relationship issue you struggle with, please go to marlena.love/the-clarity-cure 💕

I’m so grateful you’re here and so happy that you’re ready to end your codependency so you can get the love you need 💗

With Love

Marlena