Melissa Jane Ceremonies

Melissa Jane Ceremonies Fenland based Civil Celebrant offering bespoke funeral and memorial ceremonies tailored to the individual.

Covering Fenland, Cambridgeshire, Peterborough, Kings Lynn and beyond.

🌿 Easter Sunday.I’ll be honest, I’m not a particularly religious person, but I do think it’s important to pause and refl...
05/04/2026

🌿 Easter Sunday.

I’ll be honest, I’m not a particularly religious person, but I do think it’s important to pause and reflect on what this time of year represents.

At its heart, Easter is about hope, renewal and new life.

And especially after my recent post, that feels more meaningful than ever.

In the work I do, I see first-hand how heavy loss can feel, how it can change everything. But I also see, in time, moments of light, healing, and new beginnings finding their way through.

For me, that’s what Easter represents.

It reminds us that even after the darkest times, there can still be new life, new joy, and moments of happiness again.

Wishing you all a peaceful and hopeful Easter šŸ¤

ā€œWeeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.ā€ - Psalm 30:5

šŸ¼ With the kind permission of the parents, I want to share a moment from today šŸ’™This morning I received some really spec...
02/04/2026

šŸ¼ With the kind permission of the parents, I want to share a moment from today šŸ’™

This morning I received some really special news.

Some time ago, I supported a young couple through the loss of not one, but two babies. It was a situation that stayed with me, because it felt so unbelievably unfair, and so incredibly sad.

This morning, I was told that they had recently welcomed a beautiful baby boy into the world.

And by the strangest twist of timing, I had just finished a service in Huntingdon when I realised they were nearby.

I was able to go and see them, to sit and talk, and to have a cuddle with their beautiful little boy. 🄰

It’s hard to put into words what that moment felt like but my eyes were filled with happy tears.

To have been with them in such heartbreaking times, and then to see them now, with their healthy baby boy… it was just so special.

I'm sure that I speak for myself, Carol Goodwin and the ladies at Central Co-op Funerals, when I say that we are over the moon for this wonderful couple and we wish them all the happiness in the world. šŸ©·šŸ©µšŸ’™

Hello, I thought it might be time to reintroduce myself.I’m Melissa, the face behind Melissa Jane Ceremonies.I work with...
30/03/2026

Hello, I thought it might be time to reintroduce myself.

I’m Melissa, the face behind Melissa Jane Ceremonies.

I work with families to create personal, meaningful funeral services. Ones that truly reflect the person they love and the life they lived.

People often ask me how I do this work and the truth is, it’s not about having the perfect words. It’s about listening, about understanding what made someone them, and about helping families find a way to say goodbye that feels right.

It’s a real privilege to be trusted with that, and something I never take for granted.

If we haven’t met before, you’re very welcome here šŸ¤

I spent time today with a lady who spoke so lovingly about her husband.She told me that in their marriage, they had reac...
25/03/2026

I spent time today with a lady who spoke so lovingly about her husband.

She told me that in their marriage, they had reached their own little piece of heaven… that together they had created what she called a ā€œbubble of happinessā€.

She described him as intelligent, strong and deeply loving, someone who meant everything to her and to their son… but also someone with a shy nature and a cheeky side that made her smile.

We talked about their journey too, from building their life together in Romania to making a home here in the UK.

We sat chatting and laughing together like 2 friends, it’s so lovely to hear these stories, to be welcomed into people's homes and for them to talk to me so openly ā˜ŗļø

25/03/2026

Cold hands and a bobble hat on but the most beautiful morning walk.

The sky was blue, the sun was shining and the birds were in full chorus.

I’ve been making time for a 30 minute walk each morning recently and it’s made such a difference to how I start the day.

A little bit of calm before everything else begins.

Are you a morning person, how do you like to start your day?

Life has been a little full over the past few months as I’ve balanced my celebrant work alongside caring for my Dad.I ta...
09/02/2026

Life has been a little full over the past few months as I’ve balanced my celebrant work alongside caring for my Dad.

I take my role as a celebrant very seriously, but I do believe there’s always room for a little light-heartedness too.

Today I led a beautiful Celebration of Life, and it was a true reminder of how meaningful these gatherings can be when f...
11/01/2026

Today I led a beautiful Celebration of Life, and it was a true reminder of how meaningful these gatherings can be when families choose to do things their own way.

I arrived to find the room already full of conversation, laughter and photos playing on the screen. People were connecting and sharing memories before the ceremony even began. Candles were lit by family, poems and tributes were shared, stories were told, and when the moment felt right, everyone sang Hey Jude together.

The ashes were present throughout, resting in an Everton casket atop an Everton shirt, a very personal reminder that he was still part of the room.

This wasn’t about removing grief, it was about separating the funeral from the ceremony. Allowing the practicalities to happen privately and creating space later for something warmer, gentler and completely personal.

The ceremony closed, afternoon tea followed, photo albums were opened, and memories continued to be shared long after the formal words ended.

A truly lovely way to remember a life. šŸ’™

If this feels like the right kind of farewell for your family, you’re welcome to reach out.

As we approach the final days before Christmas, I’ve found myself pausing to reflect on the year that’s nearly behind us...
23/12/2025

As we approach the final days before Christmas, I’ve found myself pausing to reflect on the year that’s nearly behind us.

This work is never done alone. Every service is shaped by many caring hands, quiet teamwork, and people who show up with professionalism and kindness, often while carrying their own stories of loss.

This year has looked a little different for me. For the first time since becoming a celebrant, I haven’t managed to deliver my usual cards and small gifts to the funeral directors and crematoria teams I work alongside. Life, quite simply, asked a little more of me this year than I expected.

But my gratitude hasn’t changed.

To the funeral directors who continue to place their trust in me, and to the chapel and crematoria staff who create calm and dignity in every service, thank you for your continued support. It means more than you may realise.

Wishing you a peaceful Christmas and a gentle end to the year.

Melissa šŸ¤

✨ Christmas Memorial Service. A Truly Special Evening ✨This evening, I had the honour of joining Reverend David Busk in ...
11/12/2025

✨ Christmas Memorial Service. A Truly Special Evening ✨

This evening, I had the honour of joining Reverend David Busk in leading a Christmas memorial service organised by William Peacock & Sons Funeral Directors. Although I have been a celebrant for five years, this was the first time I’ve ever been part of a service quite like this, and it was truly something I will never forget.

The chapel looked absolutely beautiful. Huntingdon Crematorium’s staff had decorated it with festive garlands and softly glowing candles, creating the perfect setting for a gentle and heartfelt evening of remembrance.

One of the most moving moments of the service was the Roll Call. Sara from Peacocks and I read aloud the names of those we remembered this evening. When the final name was spoken, the lights dimmed, O Holy Night began to play, and each person lit a candle in honour of their loved one, and the chapel felt almost magical.

Thank you to everyone who came, and to William Peacocks for inviting me to be part of such a meaningful and moving service. šŸ•ÆļøšŸŒŸ

Sometimes this role takes me to places I never expected.Last week, I found myself in Loughborough, leading a service for...
07/11/2025

Sometimes this role takes me to places I never expected.

Last week, I found myself in Loughborough, leading a service for a vibrant young woman. Her family and friends arrived in a colourful array of hats and outfits which was a beautiful reflection of her spirit. It was an honour to hold that space with them and to help shape a farewell that felt 'just right' for her.

And in the coming weeks, I’ll be travelling to Colchester Crematorium to support another family as they say their goodbyes.

Although most of my work is here in Cambridgeshire, every service is unique and sometimes that means stepping a little further afield. No two days are the same, and that’s one of the many reasons I feel so privileged to do what I do.

If you, or someone you know, needs support in planning a heartfelt and personal farewell, whether near or far, I’m always here to help. šŸ¤

03/10/2025

I was really touched after this morning’s service to receive the most wonderful compliment from the Manager of The Gables Care Home in Chatteris, who told me I was the best celebrant she’d ever heard and that the service was absolutely amazing.

Coming from someone who has attended many services, those words truly meant a lot.

I never take such feedback for granted, every family, every goodbye, and every story deserves to be treated with care and heart. I’m just so grateful to be trusted to help make those moments meaningful. šŸ’›

01/09/2025

✨Sometimes, words stay with us long after we first hear them.

At a recent service, I was asked to read this beautiful passage from The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry. I found the sentiment touching, as did many of those present, because it captures so honestly what grief can feel like.

ā€œ I miss him. I know in my head that he has gone, but I still still keep looking. The only difference is that I’m getting used to the pain. It’s like discovering a great hole in the ground - to begin with you forget it’s there and keep falling in. After a while, it’s still there, but you learn to walk around it.ā€ļæ¼

Grief doesn’t disappear. Instead, we slowly learn to live alongside it. ļæ¼ā¤ļø

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