Abigail Ruffy IBCLC

28/04/2026

Supporting mums through challenges like mastitis, latch struggles, and confidence dips is exactly why I do this work.

So grateful for this kind review 🤍

If you need support, I’m here.

25/04/2026

22/04/2026

21/04/2026

I have been supporting a mum navigating mastitis

When we first spoke, she was in pain, her breast was inflamed, and feeding felt overwhelming.

With the right support, things have started to shift:

Redness and swelling reducing
Pain improving
Feeding becoming more manageable
Mum feeling more confident

We focused on:

– Gentle, effective milk removal
– Improving latch (even when it’s tricky)
– Rest, antibiotics, and realistic expectations
– Understanding baby’s oral anatomy and positioning

I’ve also created a mastitis support sheet to guide families through this—because knowing what’s happening and what helps makes such a difference.

If you’re struggling, you’re not alone—and it can get better with the right support.

Message me for my mastitis guide or to book 1:1 support (home visits & phone support available).

19/04/2026

Did you know I offer phone support?

You don’t always need a home visit to feel supported. Sometimes you just need someone to talk things through with, in the moment.

Whether it’s latch worries, feeding patterns, pain, or just needing reassurance — I’m here.

Real-time support.
No pressure.
Just guidance when you need it most.

Send me a message to book or find out more.

18/04/2026

If you’ve been thinking about coming but feeling unsure… you’re not the only one.

These things can feel a bit daunting, especially if you don’t know anyone yet.

But this is exactly why I’ve created it—to be a space that feels easy, relaxed and welcoming.

You can come for as little or as long as you like.

I’ll be there to say hello, so you won’t be on your own.

30 April | Ellington Park | 11:30am

17/04/2026

Now’s your chance to help shape maternity care in East Kent—come along and share your views.

Come and join us for our 15 Steps for Maternity visit on 28th April. Spaces are limited, so email your interest as soon as possible 🤍

15/04/2026

You don’t have to know anyone to come to this.

If you’ve been thinking “I should get out more” but it feels a bit overwhelming… this is your sign.

I’m hosting a really simple, relaxed mums’ park picnic—no structure, no pressure, just a space to sit, chat, feed your baby, or quietly exist alongside other mums.

• Thursday 30 April
• From 11:30am
• Ellington Park, Ramsgate
• Free parking nearby

Bring a picnic, a blanket & your little ones.
You can arrive late, leave early, or just stay for 10 minutes—whatever feels manageable on the day.

I’ll be there to welcome you (and probably holding a coffee ☕️), so you won’t be walking into a group of strangers alone.

This is the kind of space I wish more mums had—especially in those early days where everything can feel a bit isolating.

If you’re thinking about coming, comment or send me a message—I’d love to know who to look out for.

13/04/2026

Today… I feel like a big girl.

Because I just submitted my community interest company (CIC) application — something that feels deeply personal, not just professional.

Through midwifery, through breastfeeding support, through sitting with families in those raw, early days — I kept seeing the same thing: we can do better.

More support.

More understanding.

More spaces where families feel truly held.

Because this isn’t just a project… it’s a piece of something I wish every family could have from the very beginning.

13/04/2026

Helping you get the perfect fit so pumping is comfortable and effective! We will work together to find the right fl**ge size, setting you up for success.