19/02/2026
There’s a filter in your brain like a Google search bar running 24/7.
It scans everything. And then it goes, “Cool. What are we focusing on?”
If you keep typing in:
What if I’ve annoyed them
What if this goes wrong
What if I’m not good enough
Your brain goes, say less. Here’s 47 more tabs on that.
Not to sabotage you. To protect you.
It filters IN what you repeatedly engage with. It filters OUT everything else.
So if you never actively look for:
Evidence you’re safe
Proof you handled it
Signs you’re actually capable
Your brain just doesn’t highlight them.
It’s not about fake positivity. It’s about changing what you treat as important.
Because your brain is an algorithm. Right now it’s just giving you more of what you click on.
If you want to stop living in mental fight-or-flight and actually feel grounded AF and excited for life again, this is the work.
It’s time to update what your brain flags as important.
Inside The Calm Code, my 10-week online programme, this is exactly what we do.
We update your internal algorithm.
Think of it as a rebrand from the inside out.
If you’re ready to stop spiralling, and want to shift your focus book a call with me (calendar in my bio) or DM me the word CALM and start the conversation.
Jools Xx