Debs Daitani Ltd, Much Wenlock (2025)

10/07/2024

Think you don't have a personal brand?

Think again... We ALL do!

A personal brand is about so much more than a logo and colours.

And it's definitely NOT just for entrepreneurs!

It's a way of life!

It's the very essence of YOU.

It's what lights you up, what floats your boat, what makes you tick and what you stand for.

All of these things can help you remember who the f*ck you are in midlife!

Values to keep you strong.

Boundaries to preserve your sense of self.

Beliefs to keep you moving forward.

Your brand is very much your guiding light!

Whether you use it for business or not.

It really is the fastest way to reclaim your confidence in midlife - to stop people pleasing 24/7 and start living the life YOU want to live.

This is why I'm 'rebranding midlife', so that you can begin to see all the positives of this time of life.

Are you ready to rebrand yours?

Comment REBRAND for a copy of my free eBook to help you get started!

06/02/2023

Is menopause holding you back from growing your business?

Or even from getting one started?

One of the best ways to start or build a business is by utilising the power of social media.

This can be scary enough for anyone in the beginning...

'I don't know enough people...'
'Noone will want what I have...'
'I'm not confident enough to be on social media...'

I hear these things ALL the time, so if you've been nodding your head as you read this, you are absolutely not alone.

It can be a bit of a minefield.

There's engagement, networking, content creation, multiple different platforms, Inboxes, stories, reels, lives and the often dreaded and almost always misunderstood algorithm!

Then add your menopause symptoms into the mix...

What was already a challenge now seems impossible.

And so many women feel like they're failing, then they lose interest and more often than not - give up completely.

But I really, REALLY don't want you to give up!

Became for us meno warriors, having our own business can actually be a life saver!

And actually, menopause could be the exact reason why you decide to build a business!

You'll know by now that I lost several jobs back to back thanks to menopause symptoms and a complete lack of realisation about what it was.

There was NO WAY I could have held down a corporate, '9-5' job.

Not enough flexibility to account for my fatigue, depression and brain fog.

If I hadn't been able to start my own business, I truly don't know what might have happened to me.

Thankfully, I already had a good grasp of social media thanks to a decade of network marketing. It taught me so much, and for the most part - how NOT to promote yourself on socials!

But I know so many women who do not have this background, who are facing using social media for business for the first time and they're terrified.

Not only because they don't know how to use it effectively, but also because they're afraid of sharing themselves with the world, telling their story.

But their story is one of the most powerful things that will help them grow - as a business AND as a person.

I can absolutely help you with both and I'm so excited to announce I'm breaking it all down for you.

Manageable chunks.

Baby steps.

Affordable!

I'm taking away the social media stress by creating a 6-month membership which will give you all the tools you need to get your idea off the ground and get your business to the next level.

I'll be sharing much more on this soon - I can't wait to bring it to you 😁

And for the first 100 to register their interest, I'll even give you the first month free!

Are you in??

21/09/2022

From one sofa to another...

And the 'another' is a f*cking HUGE one!

I almost can't believe I'm writing this.

Well, actually I can believe it because it was a goal I set myself last year, as soon as I dedicated myself to the menopause cause!

And it's actually happening!

Next Wednesday, I'm going to be sitting on the This Morning sofa!

It's CRAZY!

But I'm so bl00dy happy, excited and feeling ridiculously grateful for this opportunity.

I've been invited to talk about my experience of struggling with menopause whilst I was in my corporate career.

If you've followed me for a while, you'll know that I lost multiple jobs in succession because I couldn't function at work.

I was constantly fatigued, never able to get to work on time.

I had brain fog, struggling to focus on the simplest of tasks.

I couldn't keep my concentration, my organisational skills had left the building and I was failing at jobs I'd previously been able to do blindfolded.

I had no idea it was perimenopause because I'd never have expected that to come along at 39.

My employers didn't ever suggest it might have been perimenopause because they didn't have the knowledge.

I had to be signed off several times and the only reasons I could give were depression and/or fatigue.

Neither of which are particularly well received by an employer.

I felt useless, a huge disappointment to others, frustrated with myself and actually - like a complete waste of space.

It took YEARS for me to finally understand what was happening to me and it's why I do what I do now - to help other women understand, to help them explain things to their employers.

In the hope they don't have to leave their job or feel inadequate.

And now I get this wonderful opportunity to let many more women know that it's not their fault.

They're not failing.

IT'S MENOPAUSE!

And if I can also help employers have a better understanding, then that's a bonus too.

If this is you right now - don't feel alone.

I'm here for you 💗

21/09/2022

What is it that truly lights you up?

You know, the thing that gives you a real fire in your belly...

The thing you're so passionate about, you could talk about it for hours...

For me - this is absolutely, completely, totally MENOPAUSE!

For years, people had told me that once you find your passion, everything else will fall into place.

And honestly - there have been several times where I thought I'd already reached that point.

But no.

Because I had to go through my personal perimenopause hell first.

I had to experience ALL of the lows.

I had to have a complete meltdown.

Because without those, my life would have gone in a very different direction and I expect I'd still be stuck in a thankless, corporate job.

Working for someone else who doesn't even really care about me.

Ticking boxes, hitting targets and spinning many plates to keep everyone else happy.

But I know I wouldn't have been happy.

Not the all-encompassing inner happy that I feel now.

Now I have a life, not only of complete freedom - I am making a real difference to others.

THAT is something I have strived for my whole life and it wasn't until I realised I was striving in the wrong place, for the wrong people that I could break free.

So tell me now, what is your TRUE passion?

Are you living it every day?

If not - why not?

21/09/2022

What do YOU really want?

How often do you check in with yourself to reassess this?

What you want will most likely change a lot during your lifetime.

I mean, do you still want now what you wanted when you were 5? Or even when you were 25?

I know I don't!

What I want most of all now is time freedom. It is the single most valuable thing I can imagine.

Time freedom to me means working 3 days a week doing something I completely love (and therefore not really feeling like work!).

Leaving 4 days every week to spend exactly as I want to.

Being able to go wherever I want, living a life full of experiences!

So what's the thing you want most right now?

And more importantly - do you have a plan to turn it into reality?

Have you mapped out a strategy?

Do you have specific targets or goals?

Do you know how much time you're prepared to invest to not only make it happen but to ensure balance?

I've just mapped out my own strategy to consistently hit my new goals each month.

Whilst I don't believe success is measured in financial terms, we all have a minimum that we

a. NEED to MAINTAIN our current way of life and
b. WANT to IMPROVE our current way of life

And you need to be specific about what that looks like.

I have some very big goals but to get to those, I must first be consistent with the smaller ones.

Although I've had several months very close to my first target, it's been sporadic.

I believe this is because I haven't had that roadmap clearly laid out.

Now that I do, I know EXACTLY what I need to achieve month on month.

Not only that, but I can do it in just 3-4 days a week - goal reached!

And actually I only mean a few hours in each of those days.

It's actually VERY achievable.

Because I've broken it down into bitesize pieces.

In fact my whole ethos now is bitesize!

Overwhelm will bring the destruction of dreams but - overwhelm is a choice.

It is not a pre-requisite for success.

So yes, do dream big but - have smaller, interim, quickly achievable dreams to keep you motivated, encouraged and always taking action.

My question for you today is this...

What can you achieve RIGHT NOW to propel you forward towards your dreams?

21/09/2022

Change.

How do you deal with it?

This pic was taken last week whilst I was having a wee street art tour of Birmingham.

Would you believe this actually used to be the Birds Custard Factory?

I absolutely love how the area has been transformed instead of going to ruin.

Change!

I've always been pretty flexible and open to change but nowadays - I actively seek it!

I believe it is essential in all aspects of life...

Health
Wealth
Mindset
Business

Change is in fact evolution.

Evolution is what makes you grow.

Because if you're not growing, moving forward - you're either standing still or going backwards, neither of which is helpful!

I'm always striving to find a better way of living, working and helping others.

My life and business have evolved so much over the last year, I'm a million miles from where I was.

In my corporate days this was often seen as unreliable, disloyal even, but for me it was for one reason only - self development.

Now in my business, I have found my true passion, purpose and mission but I'm still evolving.

Because life doesn't stop...
People want different things...

But not just that, I personally never want to stop learning!

So if I learn something and it can be added to what I already bring you - you bet I'll be doing it!

I've actually been 'evolving' all night...

My brain is flooded with ideas of how to best align my values to the ways in which I can help you.

I'll be announcing something very special over the next couple of weeks.

Just remember - it's not change...

💗 It's evolution
💗 It's progress
💗 It's development
💗 It's growth

So now tell me - how will you deal with it now??

07/07/2022

Wow!

Epic!

Release!

Calm!

Presence!

Safe!

Joy!

My beautiful client has just said every one of these on our first dig deep session.

I'm working with her to get her business idea from Concept to Creation and the very first step of this is to fully understand your why...

There was laughter, there were tears and there was a VISIBLE SHIFT as she uncovered something about herself she didn't even realise was there.

This is POWERFUL stuff!

Understanding your full self, your true self is THE best way to find your purpose in life.

And once you find your purpose - anything is possible!

I feel so privileged to have witnessed this emotional breakthrough tonight and beyond grateful my client felt so safe to be able to share everything with me without hesitation.

THIS is why I do what I do.

I give women that safety, that comfort, that non-judgmental space to just be...

And in being - we see who we are becoming.

Thank you my beautiful friend, I'm so excited to watch you grow through this process 💗🤘🏻💗

06/07/2022

I don't have time to post new content every day!

I bet you've said that before??

Well here's the truth...

YOU DON'T HAVE TO!

Yes, fresh content is essential to keep your audience interested and updated but you absolutely do not have to do this every day.

And you definitely shouldn't post multiple times a day.

There was a time when this was what was required to get noticed on social media but nowadays, too much posting could actually be detrimental!

Why?

Because if you have a post or posts that are still doing really well, anything new you share is simply adding more competition to them!

Simply put - a new post will reduce the visibility of an existing post.

Now, if your old posts aren't performing then yes absolutely go ahead and share something fresh BUT

If a post is doing well and still getting engagement - leave things alone!

Unless you have something absolutely earth shatteringly amazing to say that overrules your previous post, save whatever you have for another day.

A quality post should still be gaining attraction 2-3 days afterwards and sometimes even longer.

The algorithm has changed so much that now you should find posting less actually gets you a higher engagement rate per post.

So why create more work for yourself by posting another just because someone told you to post every day?

If you look at either of my profiles, you'll see I typically post 3 times a week. On occasion it's more, sometimes it's less.

I post when I need to, not when I think I have to.

Now isn't that refreshing?!?

How often are you posting at the moment?

05/07/2022

Are you ready to give your business a reboot?

If you're building a business online and feeling stuck or you're not getting the results you want, it might simply be down to your strategy.

Maybe you're overcomplicating it...

Maybe you're not doing things effectively...

Maybe you don't know how to grow your audience...

Maybe you're not being consistent with your message...

Or maybe you don't actually have a strategy?

In 3 weeks time, I'll be launching the Media Mastery Method...

Simple strategies and key skills that you can implement immediately and start seeing real results right away.

It's a 6 week group training which will:

💗 improve your online presence
💗 increase visibility and interaction
💗 define your personal brand
💗 give you endless ideas for valuable content
💗 and teach you the correct way to network

This program is for a maximum of 10 people... And 4 of those places are already reserved - that's now just 6 places left for this round.

Plus - I'm offering a crazy launch price!

Those remaining places will go quickly - if this is exactly what you need help with right now, come chat and I'll give you all the deets!

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