07/02/2021
Five cards were drawn for the reading I undertook earlier on today. For someone who was newly married and wanted to explore that a bit more. It didnt take long for me to be concerned about the person asking for advice. Let me explain why.
The first card spoke to me about her before she got married, and outside of her marriage. The Queen of Wands is a powerful thoughtful and focused person, and the energy of this person, their ability to drive themselves and those they care for, was undoubted.
More troubling though, especially for a newly wed, was the second card. I dont believe any Tarot card is 'bad' but the Three of Swords is certainly one which speaks of huge discomfort on her part. But that, for a newly-wed is really unusual and not a good sign.
Card three is the single Major, the key card in the spread. I warned her that it was nothing to fear, but Death is always a bit disconcerting to the new querent. What it spoke of here though, was mourning, was time she spent trying to work out what was wrong and what she had done. I guided her that often, Death in Tarot is there to remind people that the future is in front of them, not behind.
Card four, the Knight of Swords, was about her husband. A man, yes. I body anyway. In mind, in spirit, in behaviour, this is an overgrown adolescent, someone interested in fun, enjoyment, and about as ready to be married as a pet dog. And his behaviour and interactions are clearly part of the cause for the sadness and pain of the querent.
Finally, the Page of Cups was drawn. Not the powerful Queen this time, this is a card which speaks of her emotionally devastated, hurt and wounded. Trying so hard to work out what it is that she has done, and at a loss as to what to do to about the situation.
I finished the reading with a reflection of love and what I understand it to be. An invitation to her to think of who she is, the powerful autonomous Queen, or the vulnerable child-like Page? And sought her understanding of what is acceptable and not, in a relationship as powerful and wonderful, as a marriage.
She expressed amazement that, having said nothing, I, and Tarot, were able to get it so right. I simply reflected back, that is what it does. Sometimes, it can be painful to hear its reality. But sometimes too, it can have positive outcomes.
Time, I believe, will tell in this case.