31/01/2026
I have this conversation with people often and it is a hard one for them to get past.
Just because you did do it, doesn’t mean you can do it all of the time. Times change, people change, situations change and instead of focusing on the past that is holding you back, focus on what you can do.
I actually don’t post a lot about myself on here, mainly because Focused Nutrition is not about me BUT all of these different stages in my life have been different, if I got caught up in beating myself up for not training as much or as hard as I used to, I would be constantly upset. There are certainly times when those thoughts pass through my head BUT I ask myself, ‘do I want to sacrifice that much time and energy on those things again?’ And my answer is no and that’s ok. I still love training and train more than most but now for different reasons.
I am still always going to try my best, but my best now just looks slightly different to what it did, in some ways better, in some days not as good 🤷🏻♀️.
If you feel like this about anything, ask yourself…
- why do you want to do that again, how much did you have to sacrifice to get it?
- was your life different then to now?
Relationships with food and training can be a minefield, if it was just about counting calories and going to the gym, it would be easy! 🙄 But I certainly know that is not the case and I would love to help if I can. Shoot me a message or book a call if you feel you need some wise words or help in the right direction.