28/02/2026
14 years ago I undertook six months of postgraduate training in paediatric acupuncture. Becoming a mother made it clear to me that I wanted to be able to support my own children with Chinese medicine.
Earlier this week, my youngest son (shared with permission) told me he wasn’t feeling right. After a gentle chat, it became clear he was feeling anxious, made worse by the thought of being in school — worried he would feel overwhelmed. He said talking to a friend helped, but that wasn’t possible during lessons.
Instead of trying to distract him from the feeling, we explored it. He named the emotions, described where he felt them in his body, and noticed the thoughts that came with them. We talked about acknowledging the sensations and thoughts rather than pushing them away.
He then applied pressure to an acupressure point on his wrist while reminding himself: I am safe. I have what I need to move through this. This will pass. The point isn’t magic — it works because it creates a pause. It brings awareness back into the body, regulates the nervous system, and gives the mind something grounded to focus on. Over time, this builds new neural pathways. He’s learning that thoughts aren’t facts — and that he can influence how he responds to them.
Of course children and family never listen to you as a practitioner the way clients do, so I had to show him some proof of how mindset and reprogramming thoughts works. Around that time, I saw a video of Eileen Gu talking about her mindset as an athlete — how she understands and works with her thoughts under pressure — and we watched it together.
Search Eileen Gu: “Do You Think Before You Speak?” (Brilliant Answer!) - YouTube
We also explored the root of his worries, and looked at food, movement and rest — because it’s always the whole picture.
Each day he felt a little better. Yesterday he said, “Mum, that little heart on my wrist is insane! I pressed it once yesterday and it worked instantly!”
I reminded him it wasn’t the point — it was him. He chose to pause, to breathe, to apply what we discussed, and to trust himself.
That’s the real medicine.
Imagine if all of the mini wild hearts were taught this in schools…….