13/11/2025
I asked my client to choose what they wanted to do for a week, and their results improved.
Why? because i gave them a choice and let their body decide what was needed.
I can suggest practices but their body tells us what feels safe and comfortable.
If we remove choice, remove how it feels or simply do too much, we unintentionally add extra pressure onto an already overwhelmed nervous system.
When i work with clients we work together
*To find the practices that feel safe and comfortable
*To notice when reaching capacity
*To recognise when ticking off a to-do list, rather than the benefit of relaxation.
I constantly ask my clients, how are you feeling, so we are guided by their body and they choose what works.
Choice lead to regulation, its tells the nervous system; you're safe, in control & can relax.
This is one of the ways we rebalance or regulate the nervous system when working together.