08/04/2026
Something needs to change
I’m sitting here tonight and I’m at a loss. I’m thinking about Alphie Lonergan and his two sons. I’m thinking about the situation they’re in, the situation they shouldn’t be in. Alphie is 84 yrs old and dedicated to his sons and daughters. Alphie has been let down, abandoned by a system that is broken and falling apart. I know he’s so grateful for the care his sons have received to date and this is definitely not the fault of any care staff.
This is the fault of our government. When I read Alphie’s story it really struck a cord with me. Part of me thinks why bother fighting, why when there seems to be very little hope and instead only neglect towards families.
Then I thought about Alphie’s courage, his strength, his unconditional love for his family. I am sure Alphie has felt exhausted, lonely and yet he hasn’t given up. He is an inspiration, an example of the powerful love that exists for our children and young people. As I heard Alphie speaking he was filled with humility, compassion and a fierce protection for his family.
Post 19 SEND needs help, our young people become adults, they grow old and so do we. Our government cannot continue to ignore the failure that families experience every single day. We need a lifelong care plan for those with complex needs. With laws to underpin that foundation.
However, tonight as I sit and think. I will think of Alphie and his example of what a true hero is 🩵
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