10/10/2025
🌏 TODAY IS WORLD MENTAL HEALTH DAY 10th October 2025🙏🌏
Perfect day to share DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH
❗️All of it is hideous, whether it is physical or emotional abuse, non of it is not acceptable.
Sharing red flag signals of abusers is key.🚩
So glad this month exists in October 🙏
It is crucial to make people aware of this soul destroying behaviour. Too much of it about....😢
You should be able to leave a partner if you are not happy, be who YOU are and the relationship should be equal in love. ❤️
Speaking out is hard and of course you will be judged, often why people stay silent in FEAR... but you will find your true friends, make shed loads of new friends.
Remember you only ever need a few real friends to be your rock. 🙏🩷
Silencing people is a coping mechanism, its not being unkind....its self preservation.🙏
Get support and more importantly CALM your mind, STOP, RECHARGE and find a trusted therapist as they will try to send you mad....leaving you with no voice, as they work their way silently into ALL your circles.....trying to control you via your children, financially, friends, family.....list goes on and to lengths you did not think possible 😮
STAND UP TO ABUSE ...keep shining 💎
🚩RED FLAG SIGNALS🚩:
Love bombs, spends lots of money on you and wants to move quickly into the relationship
Does not respect your boundaries
Calls, texts, or checks up on you frequently to know where you are at all times
Shows extreme jealousy and possessiveness
Discourages you from seeing friends or family, often being late so you can't go out or causes you disruption
Insults, criticizes or embarrasses you
Controls what you wear
Makes you feel like your feelings, opinions and needs are unimportant
Does not take responsibility for their behavior and blames others
Prevents you from making your own decisions
Destroys your property or makes threats to hurt your pets
Controls your money or runs up your credit card debt
Pressures you to do drugs, alcohol, or sexual activity you are uncomfortable with
Blames you for things and makes you feel like you are wrong or crazy
Prevents you from working, going to school, or maintaining your hobbies
Threatens to take away your children, brain washing them with lies and alienating you from them
Tells you that you are a bad parent
Send you to the point you begin to make excuses for their behavior for an easy life....become a fantastic actress
Uses guns, knives or other weapons to intimidate you
