14/11/2025
Those affirmations you repeat dailyâŚ
Theyâre holding you back more than you realise:
⢠"I'm going to be confident."
⢠"I will be successful."
⢠"I'll become enough."
Theyâre all in the future tense.
But your brain doesn't respond to future promises.
It responds to the present reality.
So here's what I tell my client:
Write your affirmations as if you're already living them.
I recommend starting them with "I am."
⢠I am enough.
⢠I am capable.
⢠I am doing my best.
Using the present tense. Always.
But donât forgetâŚ
Keep them short and sharp.
This way you can repeat them anytime, anywhere.
And make them bespoke to your struggles, too.
Because generic affirmations don't create change.
Specific ones do.
So, if you're struggling with self-worth,
"I am enough" hits harder than "I will be worthy someday."
If you're battling perfectionism,
"I am doing my best" grounds you in the present moment.
Or âitâs good enoughâ gets you in to action and away from procrastination.
That language you use matters.
So, if you want to keep the change theoretical,
use the future tense.
But, if you desire change now,
use the present tense.
Youâll notice a clear difference,
just like I do with myself and my clients.
P.S. What affirmation could you rewrite in the present tense right now?