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Lee-ann - Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, Nottingham (2026)

13/03/2026

She's back. And she has thoughts. 💫

If this resonate, stick around - give me a follow. If it sounds like someone you know, mention my name to them.

For some, interacting on my posts feels a bit too…public - but I hope my voice is loud enough for those at the back because I value you, too. DM’s are always open for genuine connection.

12/03/2026

I’m different now. I’ve been noticing it for a while, but most pronounced has been the difference over the last few months.

People close to me have noticed it, too.

Life gets life-y, doesn’t it?

Just like tiny drops of water can reshape rock, I find myself altered. And this has blurred the kind of work I want to do and the kind of people I want to help.

I confess to this secret corner of social media - because I know it won’t go any further than you - it’s rocked my confidence.

It’s all well and good my signing off emails “wishing you a pleasure-filled week” or writing lots of times about “seeking out your Glimmers”, I’ve even coached women through this - sometimes even without my knowing, because they haven’t even been clients.

But what do you do when you find this happening for you? And you’re a s e x coach?

The same thing I have said to the beautiful souls I’ve worked with on this topic.

Deep wintering, babe.

Nothing in nature blooms 365.

Sometimes you have to draw your energy down to your roots to prepare for your next period of growth.

And that’s where I’ve been. Fck that past tense, it’s where I still AM.

But you know what? I feel unapologetic about it now. A few years ago I’d have dressed it up, explained it away, and tried to be more palatable.

If you’ve been quietly wintering too, you’re not alone, I see you. Tell me, what season are you in right now?

18/12/2025

You’re nosey and I like that.

Just like me ... I ask a lot of questions 🤭
..but it’s all in the name of finding good solutions.

And because I ask good questions, I can tell you what women whisper to me in sxz coaching sessions
🤫 their libeedo is low
🤫 they can’t be arsed
🤫 they feel too wobbly
🤫 they don’t bother asking for what *they want in the sack
🤫 they freeze when their partner suggests playtime
..and whilst these things are absolutely a big deal for them, they’re not the only one to feel these things.

Perhaps one of these things was a bit close to home for you?

Lemme tell you with absolute love, you’re not weird. Or broken. Or past it.

🥰 Okay?

I’m hatching good / different / bigger (😳 💩) plans for 2026 but I do have space to help more women like you.

SO, do you wanna see how liberating it can feel for you to let me get nosey about your in-the-sack activity? 'Course you do!

Tickle the link the in the comments or head to my website and lets have a chat.

*xcoach

16/12/2025

Listen, I know you’re a bit wired right now...
..but can I give you a nudge?

There’s that much noise that goes on during Silly Season it’s probably really hard to hear the whispers, but maybe you’re feeling a bit
😬 tense
😳 hyper-alert
😵💫 like you could do with the merry-go-round slowing down a bit so you can just have a bloody minute!

I hear ya, babe!

💫 And I send out all the sparkly vibes if you need a bit of a rest and recharge.

👉🏼👉🏼👉🏼 In fact, I send out the invitation to press the tip of your thumb into the tip of your index finger and take a deep breath in and out. Just one really good one.

If you want to be super sassy, press the tip of your thumb to all of the fingers of your hand - go ahead, knock yourself out!

🎁 If you have a few minutes to bookmark later on, I send out my lil’ positive body image meditation for you to use whenever you want, cos you is beeeeeautiful. (Grab the 🔗 in the comments)

2026 will be a bigger year for me, I already know where I’m headed. And maybe you’ll come with me?

But tell me how I’ve been reading the room - are you A-okay, wired, tired, or secretly craving five minutes of peace?

*xcoach

13/12/2025

🎄 Before you add one more thing to your Operation Christmas-Perfect for everyone, - read this.

I don’t usually discount my 1:1 work.

But this weekend, because it’s Not Black Friday (IYKYK), I’m opening three Pleasure First bundles. And that’s it.

This is for women who are:
– holding it all together with a Colgate advert worthy smile
– juggling work, family, food shops, and feelings
– stuffing down the nagging resentment that you're at the bottom of your own list...

Pleasure First includes:
✨ 3 private 1:1 coaching sessions
✨ focused, embodied, no-BS support
✨ space to feel calmer, clearer, and more like yourself again

It's normally £450 but you can have it for £375 if book before bedtime on Sunday night.

👏🏼💫👏🏼 And guess what? I have availability this Monday and Tuesday so we can get straight into it while your nerve is still. hot damn!

It's not therapy.
Not pointless rambling.
And it’s definitely not about “fixing” you. You're already pretty bloody cool - let me remind you.

It is about giving yourself the best possible chance of entering Christmas and the New Year feeling grounded, present, and connected, rather than running on fumes and goodwill.

Literally just this week, one of my ladies said to me
"It really feels good to feel this way.”

If you’ve been on the fence, consider this your sign.

👉 Book here before Sunday night https://leeanncordingley.co.uk/work-with-me-pleasure-first

12/12/2025

❌ Midlife isn’t a crisis, it’s a glow-up with better boundaries and probably better Meg Ryan moments.

There. I said it.
Now let’s talk about what’s really going on…
I see midlife as an opportunity to reinvent.

The women I work with wouldn’t necessarily call themselves “stuck”…but they do say things like:
🫠 I don’t feel like myself lately.
🫠 I’ve lost my spark.
🫠 I miss feeling playful.

(Yes, that kinda play.)

And as their sx coach, the shifts I see that change everything are never the complicated ones, they’re beautifully simple but deeply human:

🎶 Music that wakes something up in your hips
💋 A single, slow, melt-into-it kiss
💃 Movement that feels joyful or downright sassy
✨ Giving yourself permission to choose rather than perform

Here’s what I know - confidence isn’t really a personality trait.
Or a body type.
Or something you 'used to have before life got lifey'.

It’s actually something you have to practice.

What I see again and again in my clients:
💕 Responsive desire is normal
💕 Agency rebuilds faster than pressure ever will
💕 Play helps you feel confident
💕 Big things happen with teeny-tiny, nervous-system-approved steps

So if you’re wondering whether this season of the You Show could feel softer, braver, or more vibrant… I say, start small.

👉🏼 Put on the song that makes your shoulders shimmy.
👉🏼👉🏼 Notice one place your body that quietly says “yes.”
👉🏼👉🏼👉🏼 That’s it, that’s the spark.

And if my words have resonated, you’re exactly who I was thinking of whilst writing this.

We should talk… 😘

24/10/2025

It's true, y'know - how you dress really can influence how you feel.

Consider a day in comfie trackies and vest - how might you feel on that day? No shade on that if you're throwing shapes on your yoga mat.

Now consider a day dressed in sharp trousers, great top and kįller shoes. Maybe there's even makeup thrown into the mix - you do you, boo.

How might that day feel?

It all contributes to your sparkle!!

Now, go feel fabulous!!!!

24/07/2025

I call this one Mohawk in Rollers.

Keepin' it real after all my posting about Make Room, I'm Fabulous talk at the Base 51 FFS+ women's networking event.

Yes I went to work in my favouritest jump suit - normally wearing cream puts the fear of doodah in me - a face almost full of makeup and my trusty leopard boots. (Did you read my blog post about why you'll always see me wearing an element of animal print??)

But this is the 'before', BTS reality..... Stay humble, kids!

🎤 Fearless Facebookers, you know I want a bigger one.

A bigger microphone will help me make a difference to more of the people who don't know that they need me - so please, if you know anyone that wants to book a certified s*x coach and pleasure advocate to speak at their event - use my name!

If you were at the event, I want to know how it made you FEEL.

I’d be super-chuffed if you could leave me a testimonial or recommendation as well.

Remember your homework - tell me in the comments how you're getting along so far!

15/07/2025

Hey, I’m Lee-ann 👋🏼 I’m so glad you’re here!

If you’re new around here, welcome! And if you’ve been here a while, maybe it’s time for a little reintroduction.

I believe that too many women feel ‘meh’ about themselves, and I think that’s a ding-dang darned shame.

I also believe in big belly laughs, a well-placed innuendo, and the kind of confidence that comes from feeling at home in your own skin.

💃 I’m a yoga teacher, a burlesque performer, and a women’s circle host
🎤 I speak about confidence, sensuality, and self-worth, because you deserve to feel good in your body!
💫 I help women shake off self-doubt (and sometimes shake their hips) to reconnect with pleasure, confidence & fun

So, whether you’re here for a little inspiration, a good giggle, or just to remember that you are already enough, I’m really glad you found your way to my lil’ corner of the internet. Of course, sometimes I skate a fine line so feel free to connect with me in other ways (emails) in case I suddenly disappear 🪄

✨ Drop a 👋🏼 in the comments and tell me something fun about you, I’d love to say hello! ✨

23/06/2025

365 days.
 And no, it wasn’t dramatic. No rock bottom moment. I just fancied a few more Green Tick days.

✅ So I started tracking alcohol-free days. Just curious. 
And bit by bit, I noticed…
✨ I slept better ✨ My skin looked great ✨ I lost weight ✨ No more hangxiety

I still dance. Still laugh too loudly. Still go out. 
But weirdly, so many women quietly tell me they’d love to drink less but don’t know where to start. Or they’re not sure they’re “allowed” to want different things.

So this is for you if you’ve been wondering: 💫 Yes, you’re allowed. 💫 Yes, you can choose clarity. Calm. 🥂 Champagne on special occasions. Or not at all. You do you, boo.

If your body or brain is asking for a reset… I see you. 
I’m cheering for you.

✨ Comment Sparkles to join my Sass & Sparkle newsletter community for weekly glimmers, support, and real talk.

📸 Celebratory passionfruit nojito thanks to & at in Nottingham - it’s stunning and well worth a visit.

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