13/02/2026
So easy to put a blame on other people and stay at the same position where we are for the rest of our lives!
Playing a victim is easier than to shake 🫨 up ourselves and say:
Now on, I’m responsible for my own life and decisions!
Why is that?
Is because we been together pain! We might had a challenging 😥 childhood and never received the right amount of love from our parents which has lead it us to a comfusion teenager-hood and self doubting adulthood…
But there is always a BUT!
Our past has gone, and if you believe it or not but all of us meant to form and grown up and get different type of life in order to become who we are right now!
Is because none of the life can be the same just with similar events can occur therefore love - pain - can not been named in the same way nor feel it in the same way!
Is hard and is not easy to get a clear realisation that - we still have time!
But we have to change our life in order to get different results!
And what it Takes?
Just a honest answer when I ask you:
- How do you really want to live your life? And can you take your first step towards that vision?
This is the way how I work with my clients as a goal setting life coach! I do want you to see yourself as who you are right here right now and instead of thinking about the past or even at the future I want your attention to be right here! Only this way we can form an action plan where you among to be!
Contact me if you wish to come along to my 1:1 online or in person session at Sherwood, Nottingham office or might just join to my Women’s Mindfulness Circle event on 18th of February at Sherwood Community Centre.
More information on my website:
www.obstaclestoempowerment.co.uk
All the best for you all,
Naomi Beckl
Obstacles to Empowerment LTD