Octopus Psychology

Octopus Psychology Octopus Psychology specialises in helping people recover from trauma, particularly experiences rooted in childhood abuse, neglect, or institutional harm such as bullying, whistleblowing, or boarding school environments.

Our in person and online services combine in depth psychological therapy, life coaching, and cutting edge neurotechnology to support nervous system regulation and long term healing. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or burnt out, we tailor our work to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

With over 30,000 hours of experience each, our doctoral level clinicians (HCPC registered) and Consultant Nurse Psychotherapist (NMC-registered, BABCP-accredited) provide a neuroscience-informed approach using clinical psychology, psychotherapy, coaching, and non-invasive neurotech tools such as NeurOptimal®, RoshiWave, and Safe & Sound Protocol.

Our work is grounded in compassion, confidentiality, and deep expertise in trauma recovery.

We offer complimentary consultations to craft the right therapeutic pathway for you, with flexible delivery via Oundle or online.

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Prevention does not begin by blaming children for outcomes adults failed to prevent. It begins by understanding violence...
28/12/2025

Prevention does not begin by blaming children for outcomes adults failed to prevent. It begins by understanding violence honestly — not as caricature, but as a consequence.

Read more on this subject in this blog by Des McVey (link in comments). Des has spent years working with men who’ve committed the most serious acts of violence against women.

27/12/2025

Hosted by Dr Naomi Murphy and David Jones, Locked Up Living explores the realities of institutional life, focusing on the challenges and personal growth that can emerge in settings like prisons. In each episode, they speak with guests who share unique perspectives from inside these environments.

In this featured episode, Natalie Miller, a registered nurse working in UK prisons, sheds light on the complexities and personal side of prison healthcare. She discusses the vital role of empathy, advocacy, and teamwork, the daily demands faced by prison nurses, and shares powerful real-life stories that highlight both the difficulties and the deep humanity within prison walls.

Tune in every Wednesday morning at 6am (UK time) for fresh conversations that reveal the untold stories and innovations from some of society’s most challenging settings.

Find us wherever you get your podcasts or via the links below

23/12/2025

6% of all reported sexual offences are against males aged 16-18 years despite them being only 2.4% of the population.
But it was still shocking to me to watch videos of David Walliams apparently indecently assaulting this group of males regularly as part of his stage act. Indecent assault with the added indignity of an audience witnessing it “just for laffs”.
Last week’s conversation was important as it covered the taboo subject of sexual abuse of boys. Naomi and David met with Andy Woodward, Rafael Viola, Tobi Tarquin, Joe Sabien and Dan to discuss the sexual abuse of boys and why it takes men decades to speak up. Importantly, we also spoke about the importance of how solidarity and open conversation can spark change

You can find the transcript and links to watch and listen in the comments
And if you want to get involved, check out this website. We’ve a male survivor-led conference planned for the spring
https://whatwashidden.org/

If you or someone you know is struggling with childhood trauma, please seek professional help, and know you are not alone. There’s also a link to resources in the comments

03/12/2025

Whilst the nation is concerned with grooming gangs, shouldn’t we be equally as concerned about some of the organisations we fund? What role does the UN play in the sexual abuse of children and what could be done about it? This week, Naomi and David are joined by Professor of Law, Andrew MacLeod

Look for Locked Up Living wherever you get your podcasts or find links to watch, listen or read the transcript in the comments

01/12/2025

UN: A force for good?
Or like the Roman Catholic Church, elite football academies, Oxfam, is the UN also a cloak? This week David and Naomi publish a conversation with UN Whistleblower Professor Andrew MacLeod.

From Wednesday at 6 am. Find us wherever you get your podcasts or look for Locked Up Living Podcast on YouTube.

29/11/2025

Wolves in sheep's clothing....

In our latest Locked Up Living podcast, Helen Evans shares her powerful story of uncovering systemic sexual abuse at Oxfam—and the personal cost of speaking out. From under-resourcing safeguarding to the realities of whistleblowing (including PTSD and community backlash), Helen Evans reveals what it really takes to create change in large organisations and why neurodivergent voices matter more than ever.

A must-listen for anyone committed to ethical leadership, safeguarding, and inclusion.

Tune in now and join the conversation!

Look for Locked Up Living wherever you get your podcasts – YouTube, Apple, Google, Spotify etc or via the links in the comments

26/11/2025

Abuse dressed up as Aid.

In this episode, Dr Naomi Murphy and David Jones are joined by Helen Evans, former Global Head of Safeguarding at Oxfam. Helen shares her powerful whistleblowing journey, uncovering systemic sexual exploitation within the organisation and the emotional toll of advocating for survivors while facing resistance from leadership.

Key themes include:
• The systemic challenges of safeguarding in the aid sector
• The human cost of speaking out against wrongdoing
• The importance of neurodiversity in ethical leadership and whistleblowing
• Strategies for organisational and sector-wide change in safeguarding practices

This episode is a must-listen for those interested in institutional transparency, safeguarding, social justice, and the lived experiences of change-makers.

Look for Locked Up Living wherever you get your podcasts – YouTube, Apple, Google, Spotify etc or via the links in the comments

24/11/2025

What does a male survivor of csa look like?
Everyman. He could be any man. In any walk of life. But there are millions of you. Don’t walk alone.

To join Inside The Boys Club and connect follow the link in the comments

23/11/2025

Would it feel frightening to hear your loved one was sexually abused in childhood?
It doesn’t mean he’s broken or weak. He’s been living with that extra burden for years. If your partner, your brother, your son or dad tells you this happened to them, give them space and time to share it. Reassure them that you believe them. Remind them that you love them. Allow them to be vulnerable and know that’s a temporary state. It takes courage to acknowledge vulnerability as a male. And the strong man you know and love is still there. He will be even more resilient when he’s not having to deal with a secret.

Join Inside The Boys Club as an ally to access resources to help you know how best to support the man in your life when the resources drop.

There’s a link to Inside The Boys Club in the comments.



Sane Seven, Marius Janciauskas, Andy Woodward, Tobi Tarquin, Rafael Viola, Dan, Joe Sabien, Hugh Venables and Kerry Hopkins have all made this campaign happen

22/11/2025

Tears are an evolutionary driven behaviour. When we cry, we communicate that we’re distressed and we need comfort. It’s the offer of comfort that eases the pain.

When we suppress our tears, we put strain on our body. As a long-term strategy, suppressing pain is corrosive. It turns pain into anger. It’s displaced onto others or starts corroding our own bodies.

Prisons are full of sad people who’ve learned as children that it’s dangerous to cry when you’re sad. So instead, they transform their sadness into rage with dangerous consequences. In the population I worked with, 66% had experienced sexual abuse (Murphy & Lawrence, 2025).

Most people who are abused as children don’t end up in jail. But of those who are in jail, most of them have been very badly hurt as children. How different our society might look if we kept our children safe from harm.

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Link to paper, resources and Inside The Boys Club Substack in comments



Sane Seven, Marius Janciauskas, Andy Woodward, Tobi Tarquin, Rafael Viola, Dan, Joe Sabien, Hugh Venables and Kerry Hopkins have all made this campaign happen

21/11/2025

Boys are significantly less likely than girls to disclose sexual abuse (Rapsey et al, 2017). That's why it’s so important that people like Martin Daubney of GB News are willing to give this important issue coverage. Thanks very much to Martin for having us on for International Mens Day.

• Link to resources and Inside The Boys Club Substack in comments



Sane Seven, Marius Janciauskas, Andy Woodward, Tobi Tarquin, Rafael Viola, Dan, Joe Sabien, Hugh Venables and Kerry Hopkins have all made this campaign happen

21/11/2025

Boys are significantly less likely than girls to disclose sexual abuse (Rapsey et al, 2017). That's why it’s so important that people like Martin Daubney of GB News are willing to give this important issue coverage. Thanks very much to Martin for having us on for International Mens Day.

• Link to resources and Inside The Boys Club Substack in comments


Thanks to Sane Seven, Marius Janciauskas, Andy Woodward, Tobi Tarquin, Rafael Viola, Dan, Joe Sabien, Hugh Venables and Kerry Hopkins who've all played a big part in this campaign

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