16/11/2025
I was talking to one of my coaching clients last night, and something became painfully clear: if you want to change your life, you must be willing to let parts of it die. Sometimes that means relationships, possessions, and often the traits you’ve been clinging to for years.
Real change doesn’t happen overnight. Dreaming is cute, but it’s still just dreaming. Talking about your vision won’t make it real. and complaining certainly won’t. I can sit behind a screen and sympathise - or I can challenge you. Want to guess which one happened last night?
If you’re not ready (or even if you think you are), having someone point out your inability to take action can sting. You’ll resist it. You’ll defend it. And yet… you need to hear it. Because we cling to what’s familiar long after it’s served its purpose. We complain, we promise ourselves we’ll change - for the twentieth time in three years—and we wake up in the same place next year.
When the moment for real action arrives, fear freezes you. Of course it does. Big change involves pain. Your nervous system is literally rewiring. Old pathways die off. And yes - death, even internal death, isn’t gentle.
Here’s the good news: it doesn’t last. It feels eternal, but it isn’t. The moment you recognise that your old patterns (and your complaining about them) have been fulfilling hidden needs - attention, validation - you finally have a starting point.
So why do I speak so confidently about this? Because I’ve reinvented myself more times than I can count. I’ve walked through fear, breathed through discomfort, and dismantled entire versions of myself in the name of growth. My Limitless Living Experiment didn’t suddenly appear out of thin air—I’ve been pushing my edges all my life.
What did arrive recently was the clarity of what my life is actually devoted to: expansion, freedom, and helping others access their own potential. That’s why I left home, sold everything, and hit the road—not to “follow a dream,” but to live in alignment with who I’m becoming.
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