16/03/2026
Something I’ve been noticing more often in conversations with business owners.
The people who seem to be managing everything perfectly well are sometimes the ones carrying the most pressure. From the outside they look steady. Work gets done. Decisions keep being made. Nothing appears to be slipping.
But when you sit with them for a bit longer, you start to hear something slightly different.
Their head feels full most of the time. They find it harder to switch off in the evenings. Small things seem to take a little more effort than they used to. They have withdrawn from the things they used to enjoy.
There isn’t a crisis exactly.
It’s more like something has shifted in the background and they haven’t quite had the chance to pause and notice it. Life is often so high paced these days.
I started calling that 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙌𝙪𝙞𝙚𝙩 𝙎𝙝𝙞𝙛𝙩, mainly because it tends to happen slowly and without much fuss. It can be so slow that they don't realise.
I’m curious what others notice in themselves.
When pressure starts building in your work, what tends to show up first?
For me, my digestive system will often be my first indicator.