Claire Mcnulty Wellbeing Coach

Claire Mcnulty Wellbeing Coach Clinical Hypnotherapist and Life Coach

ADHD Coach - late diagnosed ADHDer

Empowering you to embrace your authentic self.

Making positive change to transform your life.

⭐️Free consultations face to face or online.⭐️

https://linktr.ee/clairemcnulty Become your best self by releasing yourself from any issues which may be holding you back in life. I specialise in working with adults and children with anxiety and low self esteem. I also work with fears, phobias, trauma, health and lifestyle. Past and present life experiences can play a major role in how we feel and behave. Using a variety of techniques we can work through these together in order for you to lead a happy, fulfilling life.

🧠 What if ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention—but a challenge of regulation?Many people think ADHD is about being distract...
05/12/2025

🧠 What if ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention—but a challenge of regulation?

Many people think ADHD is about being distracted or disorganised.
But when you look closer, it’s really about dysregulation.

👇 Here’s what that can look like:

🔄 Emotional dysregulation
Big feelings that hit hard and linger. You’re not “too sensitive”—your nervous system just has trouble modulating emotional intensity.

⏰ Time dysregulation
Deadlines sneak up, time slips away, or everything feels urgent. It’s not poor planning—it’s “time blindness.”

🧠 Attention dysregulation
It’s not a lack of focus—it’s inconsistent focus. You might hyperfocus on one thing and completely zone out on another.

⚡ Energy dysregulation
You feel wired, then wiped. Productivity comes in bursts. There’s nothing wrong with your motivation—you’re managing fluctuating energy.

🛌 Sleep dysregulation
Your brain lights up at night and refuses to power down. Mornings? A foggy blur.

🍽️ Impulse and behaviour dysregulation
It’s hard to pause before reacting—whether that’s overspending, interrupting, or saying “yes” when you meant “no.”

💡 Understanding ADHD through dysregulation builds compassion—for ourselves and others.

It’s not about willpower. It’s about learning how to work with a different kind of brain.

Do you relate to this view of ADHD?
Let’s talk about it 👇

Life is never static. But that doesn’t minimise or invalidate how you feel about changes. 💜As a wellbeing coach, I’ve no...
03/12/2025

Life is never static. But that doesn’t minimise or invalidate how you feel about changes. 💜

As a wellbeing coach, I’ve noticed that so many people feel that they have to support the people around them when a significant change happens. Whether it’s practical support or providing a listening ear, their own wellbeing falls down the priority list and they feel like it doesn’t matter…

It does. 🤗

If you’re still coming to terms with a huge change in your life like a bereavement, the breakdown of a relationship, or a redundancy, it’s understandable that you care about the impact on the people around you. But let me ask you this:

🤔 If you’re still processing the situation, is it reasonable to put pressure on yourself to support others?

With my support, we can work towards helping you navigate change by understanding your emotions to help you begin processing them and developing practical techniques to guide you back into the driving seat of your journey.

Remember that showing yourself the same kindness you offer up to other people is vital. ✨

Book a free, no-obligation consultation with me today.

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Why I don’t put Christmas decorations up in my therapy room…This time of year can be magical for some — and incredibly p...
03/12/2025

Why I don’t put Christmas decorations up in my therapy room…

This time of year can be magical for some — and incredibly painful for others.

In my therapy space, I keep things intentionally simple and neutral.
Here’s why:

✨ Christmas is tough for many people.
Loss, family conflict, trauma, financial pressure, loneliness…this season can bring up a lot.

✨ My therapy room is a refuge from the chaos.
A space to breathe, reflect, and feel safe — not another environment filled with seasonal expectations.

✨ Some clients don’t need reminders of Christmas.
Decor can unintentionally trigger memories, grief, or overwhelm.

✨ Neutrality matters.
Therapy should meet you where you are. Not everyone celebrates Christmas — or wants to think about it.

📣 A special Christmas-themed edition of my Living Authentically newsletter drops into subscribers’ email inboxes today!N...
01/12/2025

📣 A special Christmas-themed edition of my Living Authentically newsletter drops into subscribers’ email inboxes today!

Not on the list? Head to my website (link in bio) to receive monthly insights and coaching tips on how to live your most authentic life as we approach 2026.

Just a quick reminder that I run a Facebook community where we discuss all things ADHD 🦋Honestly ADHD is packed with pra...
28/11/2025

Just a quick reminder that I run a Facebook community where we discuss all things ADHD 🦋

Honestly ADHD is packed with practical advice, insights, and wellbeing tips to help you navigate your personal ADHD journey.

You don’t need a diagnosis to join.

Honestly ADHD is a community for everyone. Whether you’re exploring ADHD for the first time, have received a diagnosis, or are caring for a child or loved one you believe may have ADHD, there is a place for you here ♥

Search ‘Honestly ADHD’ on Facebook or DM me for the joining link.

🎉 I’m 50!!!!Half a century of living, learning, messing up, getting back up, loving deeply, losing deeply, and becoming ...
26/11/2025

🎉 I’m 50!!!!

Half a century of living, learning, messing up, getting back up, loving deeply, losing deeply, and becoming who I actually am…not who I thought I was ‘supposed’ to be.

Here’s to ‘hopefully’ the next half century. Embracing it all the way! To me age is just a mindset!

Yes, I’ll joke (and sometimes panic) about the grey hairs, the wrinkles, and the fact that I now need recovery time after staying up past 10pm.
But underneath the humour, there’s something bigger:

Reaching 50 is a privilege.
One that not everyone gets.
And I don’t take that lightly.

I’ve spent years trying to meet the world’s expectations — look younger, be smaller, be agreeable, don’t age, don’t change.
But at 50?
No. Just… no.

I’m done shrinking.
I’m done apologising.
I’m done pretending that ageing is something I need to battle.

Let’s face it…the pressure is real. To tweak this, change that. It’s bloody hard but ‘so far’ I’ve resisted. No judgement to those who haven’t.

But here’s the truth:
Every line on my face holds a story.
Every softening edge carries wisdom.
Every year has stripped away something I didn’t need and revealed something I’d been searching for.

I have laughed until I cried, cried until I healed, and lived enough life to know that beauty has nothing to do with age — and everything to do with authenticity.

So yes, I’m still cheeky.
Yes, I’m still fabulous.
And yes, I’m still committed to a good moisturiser. I’m 50, not stupid. 😉

But more than anything, I’m grateful — truly, deeply grateful — for the woman I’ve become, for the life I get to keep living, and for the wisdom I wouldn’t trade for a 20-year-old’s face.

Here’s to Fifty with Depth, Fire, and Zero Fear.

Cheers to embracing it all — boldly, honestly, and beautifully. 💛🔥✨

Parents: Accountability isn’t about shame. It’s about healing.No parent is perfect. We all make mistakes.But the impact ...
24/11/2025

Parents: Accountability isn’t about shame. It’s about healing.

No parent is perfect. We all make mistakes.
But the impact of our actions—especially the things we don’t even realise we’re doing—can leave deep marks on our children.

Raising your voice too often.
Dismissing big feelings.
Being distracted, critical, or emotionally unavailable.
Projecting your own wounds onto them.

These patterns don’t mean you’re a bad parent.
They mean you’re human—and likely repeating what you were shown.

But here’s the powerful part:
You can break the cycle.

You don’t need to have all the answers.
You don’t need to be flawless.

You just need to be willing to own your part.

Saying “I’m sorry I hurt you.”
Or “I see how that impacted you, and I’m working to change.”

It might feel small.
But to a child—whether they’re 5 or 45—it can mean everything.

Because when parents take responsibility, they teach their children that healing is possible.

And that love can include repair.

All masks should be removable. But sometimes you might not feel safe removing them. And that’s ok.I’m not trying to say ...
21/11/2025

All masks should be removable. But sometimes you might not feel safe removing them. And that’s ok.

I’m not trying to say that you’re doing anything wrong by choosing to mask your neurodivergence at all. Far from it! You deserve to choose how you want to present yourself to the world. 💜

But what if you go to remove that mask in a certain situation and find that you just can’t? That it feels so welded on that it’s just become part of your identity?

From unmasking with friends to feeling comfortable enough to let someone take a peek under the mask on a date, you should have the freedom to choose to unmask wherever and whenever you want to.

Using my lived experience of ADHD and my skills as a life coach, I can help you make your mask removable again.

If you’re tired of masking, DM me or visit my website to book a free, no-obligation consultation. 🥰

You don’t get a medal for staying.I used to think you did.I thought that sticking it out—no matter how unhappy, unseen, ...
14/11/2025

You don’t get a medal for staying.

I used to think you did.
I thought that sticking it out—no matter how unhappy, unseen, or misaligned I felt—meant I was strong.
Loyal.
Good.

I stayed in relationships far past their expiration date.
Not because they were working… but because I was afraid of what leaving would say about me.

I thought leaving meant I’d failed.
That I wasn’t trying hard enough.
That I was selfish.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

There is no prize for endurance in a relationship that breaks your spirit.
There’s no gold star for swallowing your truth.
There’s no award for abandoning yourself in order to be who someone else wants you to be.

But there is something powerful on the other side of choosing yourself.

It might look like grief at first.
It might come with fear, uncertainty, even shame.
But it also brings space. Relief. A quiet sense of returning home to yourself.

Leaving isn’t failure. It’s a reclamation.
A reclaiming of your needs.
Your joy.
Your boundaries.
Your worth.

So if you’re in a place where something in your life feels heavy, misaligned, or wrong—but you’re scared to make a change?

Let me say this clearly:

Staying isn’t always strength. Sometimes, the real strength is in leaving.

And no, you might not get a medal…
But you do get yourself back.
And that’s worth everything.

Life is like a road with many directions. 🛣Finding the confidence to make the direction that’s right for you can be tric...
12/11/2025

Life is like a road with many directions. 🛣

Finding the confidence to make the direction that’s right for you can be tricky.

That’s why I’m here to help. From finding the answers that already exist within you to understanding what really matter to you and why, I can support you in regaining motivation and re-discovering that confidence in yourself.

If you want to find your way again, DM me or visit my website to book a free, no-obligation consultation. 💌

Have you ever said something and felt your inner critic tut at you as the words leave your mouth? 😶I’ve been there! This...
10/11/2025

Have you ever said something and felt your inner critic tut at you as the words leave your mouth? 😶

I’ve been there!

This self-talk can be useful for reflection, but if it’s creating a constant negative narrative about every tiny thing you do, it’s exhausting.

Your self-confidence will be knocked.
Your self-esteem will be low.
Your self-worth might not even exist.

But there’s something you can do about it. 💪

Reframing your self-talk from negative to something more neutral takes practice but I’m here to help you along the way. Together, we can understand your thought patterns and recognise when to challenge them.

If you’d like to work towards giving your inner critic a day off, DM me or visit my website to book a free, no-obligation consultation. 💌

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