12/11/2025
💜 Visiting Your Loved One — The Meaning of the ‘Chapel of Rest’ 💜
For some, when a loved one has passed away, taking a quiet moment to visit them can bring great comfort — a chance to reflect, say goodbye, or simply be close once more.
For others, choosing not to visit feels right, and that’s perfectly okay. It’s a deeply personal choice, and everyone grieves in their own way.
The term “Chapel of Rest” was first used here in the UK by funeral directors in the early 20th century to describe a peaceful, private space for families to visit their loved one before the funeral. The word “chapel” reflects calm and reflection, while “of rest” symbolises peace and dignity.
In years gone by, it was usual for families to keep their loved one at home before the funeral. As traditions changed, funeral directors wanted to provide a gentle and respectful alternative — a place where families could visit in privacy and peace. The words “of rest” expressed the idea that the person who had died was now at peace.
Although the term includes “chapel,” Chapels of Rest are non-denominational spaces, welcoming people of all faiths or none. Today, they remain gentle, comforting environments where families can spend quiet moments with their loved one — a chance to reflect, say goodbye, or simply be close once more. 💕
Our peaceful Chapels of Rest offer that same sense of comfort and care — calm, private spaces where families can spend time in their own way and at their own pace. Visits are by appointment, allowing us to prepare the space with care and ensure you have privacy and gentle support throughout.
To learn more, please visit:
www.smithsfuneraldirectors.co.uk/visiting-your-loved-one/
We’re here for you — always with care, compassion, and understanding. 🤍