02/12/2025
How often do we sabotage ourselves?
"I'm no good at that". "I can't do that". "I hate the way I look".
"I'm useless, everyone else is so much more...".
Why do we do this. It is one of those conversations in our head. It isn't anyone else telling us. It is us talking to ourselves!
How we think, what we focus on matters.
If we can turn the "can't" into a "can" or even a "could" then we are starting on a positive note, allowing for the potential that we might succeed, then the reality is that we are far more likely to succeed.
We are human, we are not perfect, but we do deserve to treat ourselves with the kindness and respect that we give to others.
Learn to be more supportive of your efforts. We won't always get it right but it feels far easier if we are being hopeful and optimistic.