11/12/2025
Ian is selling hand-crafted wooden reindeer decorations to raise money in support of his wife’s battle against kidney disease this Christmas, having been told he is incompatible to donate a kidney.
Sadly, Anne-Marie’s kidney failed in 2022, caused by a form of hereditary polycystic kidney disease (PKD) which also affected her father and two uncles. She has had three years of exhausting dialysis to stay alive whilst she waits for a kidney.
“I was devastated when I found out I couldn’t donate a kidney to Ann-Marie. It has been very scary seeing her so unwell. Her condition has had a huge impact on our lives, she needs dialysis three times a day.
“We love Christmas. We used to go to Christmas markets across Europe but can’t do that anymore. We don’t go to as many parties or shows with friends either. Ann-Marie struggles with crowds because she worries somebody might bump into her and knock out the tube she needs in her stomach for dialysis.
“We’ve done our best to make new traditions. Every Christmas Eve we go to the picture house to watch ‘It’s a Wonderful Life’.
“When I was unable to be a kidney donor, I decided to donate my time to make a difference instead.
“I set about designing some in my shed and a couple of friends bought them – then I kept getting requests for more!
“They’re all made from tree branches with metal washers for eyes and a Christmas bauble for a nose. Each one has their own character because they’re all different shapes and sizes.
“Our innovation for the 2025 design is to add scarves knitted by my daughter Amy, keeping the reindeer warm. We’re also trialling some wooden snowman to accompany them.
“We’ve had lots of interest, and all the proceeds will be donated to Kidney Research UK. It means a lot to us to be able to support life-changing research that could make kidney transplants more readily available in the future.
“We also hope sharing our story will help to raise awareness of the importance of becoming an organ donor.”
Read more of Ian and Anne-Marie's story here: https://bit.ly/4a4Z4oU