31/01/2026
I see this pattern in so many of the people I work with.
They’re capable. Thoughtful. Intelligent.
They know exactly what they need to do.
And yet…
They can’t start.
Or they start and freeze.
Or they avoid it until the shame feels heavier than the task itself.
Not because they’re lazy.
Not because they don’t care.
But because executive function isn’t about willpower, it’s about capacity, safety, and support.
For neurodivergent people especially, tasks that look “small” from the outside can feel overwhelming on the inside.
Paperwork. Emails. Forms. Studying. Life admin.
The mental load builds.
The avoidance grows.
And self-criticism steps in loud and fast.
This is the part that hurts the most, watching yourself struggle with things you know you can do, and quietly wondering why it’s so hard for you.
You’re not broken.
You don’t need fixing.
You need the right kind of support.
And yes, there are ways to make this easier.
If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone 🤍
This space exists because of you.