Uniquely Wired

Uniquely Wired A safe space to explore, support and celebrate Neurodiversity. Breaking down STIGMA and MYTHS I also work with parents who are struggling.

I am a qualified and experienced Substance Misuse Specialist and Life Coach. I offer a therapeutic and confidential space to explore and support you with a range of mental health issues. This includes exploring the limitations that your past experiences/traumas have on your current quality of life, to providing coaching to help you to implement goals and strategies into your life if you are feeling stuck and unfulfilled. I can work collaboratively with you to help you to overcome anxious thinking pattens, build confidence and self-esteem, improve relationships, reduce substance misuse or work towards abstinence and I have a special interest in Neurodiversity and Sensory Processing Disorder. I can support you with exploring diagnosis, accessing services, understanding and managing symptoms and help you to set goals that will stop life from feeling so overwhelming. I will work with the family together to help you to improve understanding between parents and their children and help to set healthy boundaries and improve communication. All services are provided via Phone call, Zoom or in person if you are in Plymouth. Please contact me via text, call, email or messenger to arrange a good time to have a chat and see if I can support you.

That belief you have about yourself…“I’m too much”“I’m not enough”“I always mess things up”Pause for a moment.Who taught...
31/03/2026

That belief you have about yourself…

“I’m too much”
“I’m not enough”
“I always mess things up”

Pause for a moment.

Who taught you that?

Was it said directly?
Implied?
Felt over time?

And more importantly is it actually true?

Or is it something you learned
in a moment where you needed to make sense of things?

You’re allowed to outgrow beliefs
that were built in survival.

Question the story, not just yourself.

📌 If this resonated, follow along for more honest conversations about mindset, healing, and growth.

You don’t need to fix yourself.So much of healing gets framed as“what’s wrong with me?”“What do I need to fix?”But what ...
29/03/2026

You don’t need to fix yourself.

So much of healing gets framed as
“what’s wrong with me?”
“What do I need to fix?”

But what if the question was:

“What happened to me?”
“What did I have to learn to survive?”

Because most of your “issues”
are actually adaptations.

Ways you protected yourself
Ways you coped
Ways you got through

You’re not broken.
You’re patterned.

And patterns can be understood…
and slowly, compassionately changed.

Try understanding before fixing.

If this resonated, follow along for more 💛

27/03/2026

Familiar doesn’t mean healthy.

We don’t always choose what’s good for us.
We choose what we recognise.

The dynamics that feel normal
The thoughts that feel automatic
The feelings that feel expected

Even when they hurt.

Because your system learned:
“This is what life feels like.”

So when something different comes along -
calm, safe, unfamiliar

It can feel wrong.

Not because it is…
but because it’s new.

You can learn a new normal. Gently.

Letting go can feel like losing yourself.When you’ve built your identity around coping…around being the strong onethe qu...
26/03/2026

Letting go can feel like losing yourself.

When you’ve built your identity around coping…
around being the strong one
the quiet one
the one who keeps it together

Letting go of those roles can feel terrifying.

Because if you’re not that anymore…
who are you?

But here’s the truth:

You’re not losing yourself.
You’re meeting the parts of you
that never got the chance to exist.

There is more to you than survival.

Who are you underneath the roles you had to play?
Follow along if you resonate 🤍

You’re not stuck-you’re patterned.When you keep ending up in the same place...same feelings, same struggles, same outcom...
22/03/2026

You’re not stuck-you’re patterned.

When you keep ending up in the same place...
same feelings, same struggles, same outcomes

It’s easy to think:
“What’s wrong with me?”

But nothing is wrong with you.

Your nervous system is doing what it learned to do.

Your mind is following familiar scripts.

You’re not failing - you’re repeating.

And repetition feels safe, even when it hurts.
The work isn’t to shame the pattern.

It’s to gently notice it... and choose something different, one small moment at a time.

Awareness is where everything starts.

What’s one pattern you’ve started to notice in yourself lately? 👇

Not every thought you have is true.Some of the harshest things you say to yourself...aren’t even yours.They’re echoes.Of...
19/03/2026

Not every thought you have is true.

Some of the harshest things you say to yourself...aren’t even yours.

They’re echoes.
Of things you were told
Of ways you were treated
Of environments you had to survive

And somewhere along the way, they became your inner voice.

But repeating something doesn’t make it true.
And familiarity doesn’t make it accurate.
You’re allowed to question the voice in your head.
You’re allowed to soften it.
You’re allowed to choose a different one.

What’s one thought you’ve been believing that might not actually be yours? 👇

📌 Save as a reminder

I don’t talk enough about how much my relationships used to suffer before I understood my brain.Missed messages. Cancell...
17/03/2026

I don’t talk enough about how much my relationships used to suffer before I understood my brain.

Missed messages. Cancelling plans last minute. Feeling completely overwhelmed trying to keep up with everyone I care about.

And the worst part?
Thinking it meant I didn’t care enough… or wasn’t a “good” friend, partner, or colleague.

I still have moments now.
Like forgetting something important or replying way too late and instantly feeling that wave of guilt.

But understanding myself has changed everything.

It’s not about excusing behaviour or not taking responsibility…

It’s about meeting yourself with a bit more compassion instead of constant criticism.

Because beating yourself up doesn’t make you show up better, it just makes you shrink.

And the truth is, you probably bring so much more to your relationships than you give yourself credit for 🤍

📌 Save this for the days you feel like you’re “failing” the people around you.

And send it to someone who might need that reminder too.

ADHD Productivity Things I wish I had known sooner… 👇You don’t need more discipline.You need dopamine, structure and com...
12/03/2026

ADHD Productivity
Things I wish I had known sooner… 👇

You don’t need more discipline.
You need dopamine, structure and compassion.

Shame kills motivation.
It shuts down the very part of your brain you need to start.

Routines need dopamine.
Enjoyment creates consistency, not force.

You’re not behind.
You’re operating with a different operating system.

You’re not messy.
You’re overwhelmed.
And overwhelm can create a spiral that’s hard to get out of.

Starting small isn’t cheating.
It’s how your brain warms up.

You’re allowed to make your life easier.
Tools aren’t crutches… they’re support.

You’re not dramatic.
You’re sensitive.
Your emotional volume might be louder, but that doesn’t make it wrong.

For so long I thought I just needed to try harder.
Be more disciplined.
Stop being “so dramatic”.

But what my brain actually needed was support, dopamine and compassion.

If you’ve ever looked around and wondered why the simplest tasks feel like climbing a mountain… it’s not because you’re lazy.
It’s not because you’re behind.

It’s because you’ve been trying to operate like everyone else, instead of learning how your brain works.

Work with me in 2026 – link in bio 🔗

What am I missing? Comment below 👇
11/03/2026

What am I missing? Comment below 👇

ADHD Shutdown Recovery PlanWhat I do when my brain runs out of space.What’s Actually HappeningShutdown isn’t laziness, i...
07/03/2026

ADHD Shutdown Recovery Plan
What I do when my brain runs out of space.

What’s Actually Happening
Shutdown isn’t laziness, it’s overwhelm. Too many thoughts, decisions and emotions at once. When your brain hits capacity, it powers down.

1. Stop Forcing It
Pushing through usually makes shutdown worse. You don’t need more discipline, you need less pressure. Slow down and reduce the load.

2. Change Something Physical
When thinking feels impossible, shift back into your body. Lean into a wall, wrap up in a blanket, hug a pillow, or step outside for a couple of minutes.

3. Get Present
Ground yourself: 5 things you can see, 4 you can feel, 3 you can hear. It helps pull your brain out of overwhelm and back into the moment.

4. Shrink the Task
Your brain can’t handle “everything” right now. Go smaller than small. Instead of “clean the kitchen,” start with “put one cup in the sink.”

5. Ease Back In
As you come out of shutdown, don’t rush back to a full to-do list. Aim for 1–3 important tasks a day and nothing extra.

6. Gentle Movement
Shutdown feels heavy. A short walk, stretching, shaking out your hands, or making tea slowly can help wake your brain back up.

7. Self-Compassion
Shame keeps you stuck. Instead of “I’ve done nothing today,” try “My brain is overloaded. I’m allowed to slow down.”

Shutdown isn’t failure, it’s a capacity limit. Rest. Reset. Begin again.

Hi, I’m Sally… 👋If you’re new here, welcome. If you’ve been here a while, welcome back to the chaos (the organised kind…...
04/03/2026

Hi, I’m Sally… 👋

If you’re new here, welcome. If you’ve been here a while, welcome back to the chaos (the organised kind… obviously 😉).

Let’s talk about ADHD and masking, the stuff that looks high-functioning on the outside but feels like paddling furiously under the surface.

You might relate if you…

1️⃣ Obsessively check your work for mistakes… and then check it again… and then once more for emotional support.

2️⃣ Work late or at weekends just to keep up, because doing it in “normal hours” felt impossible.

3️⃣ Write lists for your lists. And set alarms. So many alarms. (If my phone dies, I simply cease to exist.)

4️⃣ Keep your home looking tidy… but behind closed doors there’s a “doom cupboard” we do not speak about.

5️⃣ Over-prepare for meetings and social situations like you’re about to sit an exam!

6️⃣ Avoid phone calls and being put on the spot!

7️⃣ Use humour to deflect when things actually feel overwhelming. (If I laugh, it’s fine… right?)

8️⃣ Are a raging perfectionist, because if it’s perfect, no one will see you struggle.

9️⃣ Say yes to everything… then quietly panic about how you’ll manage it all.

Masking can look like competence, capability, even success. But it often comes with exhaustion, self-doubt and burnout behind the scenes.

I’m a therapist and work-based coach, and I support neurodivergent people and businesses to understand how ADHD and other neurodivergent traits show up at work without shame, without burnout, and without the constant performance.

If this feels a little too relatable… you’re in the right place.

From someone who was there not long ago 🤍ADHD burnout isn’t laziness, it’s a brain that’s been in overdrive finally runn...
02/03/2026

From someone who was there not long ago 🤍

ADHD burnout isn’t laziness, it’s a brain that’s been in overdrive finally running out of charge. It feels heavy and never-ending, but I promise it won’t last forever.

If you’re in it right now, let this be your permission to rest, no guilt attached.

Which one can you relate to? 👉👉👉

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