12/10/2025
Do you look at life through the eyes of a victim?
Do you want to change the patterns of negativity in your life?
Be brave and allow yourself to look within to ask yourself why you are stuck in these patterns?
Allow the part of you which feels hurt, angry, frustrated, victimised etc to talk to you, and as you start to reassure that part of you, you will begin to break the pattern of pain which keeps you stuck in this inner belief.
Talk to yourself, be your own therapist. Observe how you act when you go into that destructive pattern and then reassure yourself that it’s safe to act differently.
When I noticed myself acting like I was a victim I used to kindly have a bit of fun with myself and ask myself if I would like to change my glasses into ones which weren’t a victims glasses. “Hey, it worked for me”
When I observed myself I saw how often I felt life wasn’t fair. So I gave myself a positive affirmation which was affirming the opposite to my feelings and emotions.
In just a few short weeks of saying “life is fair and just” i won £500.
So I invite you to be brave enough to go into your shadow side and make the changes within because what we change within is then reflected in our outer lives.
Good luck
With Love and Light
Rachel
Do you look at life through the eyes of a victim? Do you want to change the patterns of negativity in your life? Be brave and allow yourself to look within t...