25/03/2026
If you’ve ever tried to “just reframe it”…
and it didn’t work 💜
You’re not doing it wrong.
For a long time, I thought I just needed to get better at catching my thoughts.
Be more positive. More disciplined. More in control.
But the truth is…
Your conscious mind can only go so far
when your subconscious still believes you’re not safe.
Because those spirals?
They’re not random.
They’re learned patterns.
Old stories.
Your nervous system trying to protect you based on what it’s experienced before.
So when you try to reframe…
but your body still feels unsafe…
Of course it doesn’t land.
Reframing started to work for me when I began working with my subconscious and regulating my nervous system.
That’s what created the safety to actually believe something different.
So if you’ve been trying to think your way out of it… and it’s not working…
It’s not a lack of discipline.
It’s your system asking for something deeper.
Save this for the next time the spiral starts 🤍
And if this resonates, I’d love to hear what you notice comes up for you.