Locus Counselling

Locus Counselling Mandy (she/her) is a Neurodivergent LGBT+ affirmative Ecclectic Counsellor and Psychotherpist based in Poole Dorset🌈

23/01/2026
22/01/2026

Freeing hearts to love and be loved. šŸ³ļøā€āš§ļøšŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ
šŸ’œwww.FreedHearts.orgšŸ’œ

20/01/2026
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17/01/2026

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We’ve updated our ā€œMaximising Trans Inclusion after the Supreme Court Judgementā€ guide. It now covers recent judgements on trans inclusion and new resources.

The guide is for organisations and professionals who want to understand the impact of the Supreme Court Judgment on gender (and any subsequent changes to statutory guidance or regulations) on trans inclusive practices, trans employees and service users, and how to ensure trans and non-binary people remain included.

Check out version two today! https://ow.ly/KMtQ50XXby1

In case anyone needs permission to do this today.... taken from This is How it feels to be seen, by Sophie Beatrice
17/01/2026

In case anyone needs permission to do this today.... taken from This is How it feels to be seen, by Sophie Beatrice

14/01/2026

Have you got an old mobile phone you could donate??? šŸ“±šŸ¤³

We are looking for a mobile phone for one of our staff members, enabling them to work with and better support the young people of our groups.

Please contact us by email or message us if you could help! Thank you šŸŒˆšŸ’“

14/01/2026

Love. Wins. Pride. šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ

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11/01/2026

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10 Things LGBTQ+ Allies Should NOT Do

Being an ally isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being willing to listen, learn, and grow.

Here are some common missteps we see, and why they matter.

1. Don’t make it about you.
Allyship isn’t centered on your discomfort, your confusion, or your need to be praised for ā€œtrying.ā€

2. Don’t debate someone’s identity. LGBTQ+ lives are not thought experiments, political hypotheticals, or theological puzzles.

3. Don’t demand education from marginalized people.
Google is free. Learning is your responsibility, not theirs.

4. Don’t use ā€œI’m just asking questionsā€ to excuse harm.
Curiosity without care can still wound.

5. Don’t stay silent to keep the peace. Silence often protects harm — not people.

6. Don’t center your faith, politics, or comfort over someone’s safety. No belief system justifies dehumanization.

7. Don’t stop learning. Language evolves. Research grows. Lived experiences deepen. Good allies stay curious, humble, and open to learning more.

8. Don’t treat pronouns as optional or trivial. Respect is not negotiable.

9. Don’t disappear when things get hard. Allyship that only shows up when it’s easy isn’t allyship.

10. Don’t assume ā€œloveā€ without action is enough. Love shows up in protection, advocacy, and accountability. Love = action.

Allyship is a practice — not a label you earn once and keep forever.
When we know better, we do better. And when we mess up, we correct, repair and keep going.

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Tuesday 12pm - 9pm
Wednesday 12pm - 8pm
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