03/01/2026
Review what you didn’t achieve last year. Ask yourself why, what could you have done differently in order to make progress, don’t let yourself off the hook. Growth requires truth and accountability.
(Behaviour change needs both the carrot and the stick)
If you’ve not already made a commitment to yourself, then let this coming Monday be your turning point.
Make the goal concise, if it’s to improve health, that’s too vague. What are you going to do to achieve better health.
If the aim is to lose weight, how are you going to do it, nail it down, get specific.
Your goal needs to be approach orientated, not avoidant! meaning what you are going to do. NOT, what you’re not going to do.
You may want to eat less chocolate or drink less alcohol, but what are you going to do, to ensure this happens.
Break the goal down, if it’s weight loss, chunk it down into manageable amounts. What can you realistically achieve within 3 months. Keep reviewing your goal every 3 months. A year is too big, the mind loses track and it will wander off course.
The aim every 3 months, is just to keep getting a little bit better at whatever your goal is. Progress not perfection.
Know your ‘why’
Why is this goal or commitment important to you. Again, get specific.
If you can’t do it alone, then get support.
Remember, if you want different results you have to do something different.
If you are stuck in the same pattern each year, or you find that you keep sabotaging yourself year after year.
This isn’t lack of will power. It’s your thoughts and beliefs that are holding you back and they can be changed!
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