10/08/2022
On Poverty and Wealth. The opinion of the wolf of Wall Street
Psychologists argue that people have two pathological extremes: adoration of money and contempt for it. These emotional reactions are on different poles, but they have the same root: the demonization of money. Only some people believe that this demon will satisfy all their desires and passions, while others are afraid of it.
Can we do without the extremes?
Jordan Belfort, the famous "Wolf of Wall Street," the author of the book of the same name (https://t.me/monstertraders/4276) and the hero of the movie (https://t.me/monstertraders/2371) of the same name, said an interesting phrase: "There's no nobility in poverty. I've been a poor man, and I've been a rich man. And I choose rich every fu***ng time. I've been a poor man and a rich man. And I choose rich every fu***ng time.)
Indeed, members of the "convinced poor" camp often engage in self-deception, ascribing to themselves a kind of high-spiritedness and to the rich, respectively, heartlessness and all sorts of vices. There is even an expression "poor man's pride" (though it is rather a type of pride). From this position, many justify their laziness and lack of initiative: "But I'm a good person!"
Belford, on the other hand, after escaping poverty, discovered that wealth also enables you to be a good person: "Money is not only a good life, good food, good cars, pretty girls. With money you become a better person yourself," claims the Wall Street wolf. Oops! How's that? It's simple: if you have money, you can become a philanthropist, donate, help... "You can save the spotted owl from extinction," finally.
And if you have no money, how will you save that owl?
Proud of being poor and doing nothing, a person can't even help his family. Can't provide for his children's future, can't help his elderly parents. What kind of spotted owl is that?
Belford made a very important observation: where you spend your money when you have it is up to you. That's when you find out if you're a good person.
However, Belford himself could not resist extremes. The demon of money won him after all.)
This demon wins whenever you let it take over your thoughts. When you fear it and when you worship it. When you hate it and when you adore it. Now imagine that you hate... the screwdriver. Or worshipping... a hammer. Ridiculous?
Don't demonize tools. Hammers, axes, knives, screwdrivers, money. Use them.