30/11/2025
✨ **Honest post and my journey to becoming the best version of Me** ✨
For a long time, if not most of my life I have lived with heavy thoughts: judgement, failure, guilt and the constant feeling of not being good enough. These deep-rooted beliefs became part of my daily life. Where and why I felt this, I don't know. Perhaps social drinking played a part (I don't think alcohol ever has a good ending), perhaps it was just the story I told myself, unspoken words I absorbed that I would always struggle and never quite measure up.
But here’s what I’ve learned: regrets don’t help and guilt or worry doesn't change things. What matters is being happy and healthy today. The only opinion I need to worry about is my own. Those feelings of not being good enough are only true if I choose to believe and act by them.
💭 'What I think about, I bring about'. My thoughts shape my actions, and my actions shape my life.
Putting myself first is not selfish, it’s essential. My weight loss journey and road to a fitter, healthier me hasn’t been easy, but it has been worth every step. I am now starting to see that making myself the best version of me is not a punishment it’s a reward. It’s a gift I give to myself, and it brings me so much happiness and peace. It's a way that I am proving to myself that I can achieve whatever I put my mind to and what I am prepared to work hard for.
These are words I never thought I’d say… but today I am choosing to live by them.
And now, I would love to help anyone achieve the same positive feelings and freedom from shame, guilt, or embarrassment that I’ve discovered. This journey is about support, encouragement, and celebrating every step forward. I’m still walking this path myself (and yes some days it feels bloody hard) but if you’d like to be on it with me, let me know. Together, we can make today the start of something amazing. 💪❤️