10/12/2025
Have you ever noticed how heartbreak, rejection, or social stress can actually hurt? 💔
David Hanscom in his book 'Back in Control' describes how the brain doesn’t distinguish much between emotional and physical pain. When we feel excluded, criticised, or lonely, the same neural circuits light up as when we experience physical injury. Under stress, the body releases chemicals that heighten this sensitivity, making both kinds of pain feel sharper.
Connection heals. The antidote to both kinds of pain often begins with being seen, heard, and understood. Think about it - when we feel all of these things, it makes us feel better, right?🤝
This points to the importance of trusted healthcare professionals when seeking pain treatment. The alliance with people who listen and validate your experiences, while also nudging and guiding you to try new things, can be impactful in multiple layers. So also can support from friends and family, or even new acquaintances, which is why we encourage trying to get out into society as must as you can!