04/07/2021
So the NHS is getting busier and busier and the pressures we would normal see on bad winter days are now a daily “summer” occurrence. Last week we had -81 beds which essentially means there were 81 more patients than beds in the hospital. Staff have emerged from the covid pandemic straight into a new problem and quite frankly everyone is exhausted. The good will is fading, the “going the extra mile” mindset is turning into “doing enough to survive” mindset. What I noticed the other day is that there is a suggestion of tunnel vision going on. No longer the panoramic appreciation of the bigger picture, rather a blinkered focus on the immediate surroundings. This worries me and there are going to be casualties
I can see it in my own life. Too busy to notice the subtle signs of mental distress in those around me. I’m not talking overt crisis, I’m talking subtleties. Too busy to notice colleagues behaving differently, too busy to notice patients reaching out, too busy to notice the kids interacting differently. There’s always a plausible explanation-with the kids it’s hormones kicking in, with the work colleagues it’s workplace stress, with the patients it’s lockdown troubles.. but what are we missing? Why is everything that bit different ?
I think I have the answer. It’s because we no longer just stop and be. There’s always something to do. Taking time to do nothing and just observe is so cathartic - somtimes words are not needed, sometimes the conversation is not necessary- but time to hold, hug and time to breathe is everything.
Putting the phone down, turning off the tele, going for a walk. All these easy things to do, make such a difference.
I implore you to do this. Just take time to notice and time to be. Don’t lose the bigger picture before it’s too late. Remove the blinkers and engage the peripheral vision.
Someone near to you needs that hug.
Have a great Sunday x