24/12/2025
These patterns feel so normal that you don’t even question them anymore.
You think being easy-going and helpful is just who you are. But underneath? You’re exhausted from constantly managing everyone else’s comfort whilst ignoring your own needs.
You replay conversations in your head, analysing every word you said. Meanwhile, the other person hasn’t given it a second thought.
You made one small mistake and it’s playing on repeat in your mind. Your inner critic won’t let it go, turning it into evidence that you’re not good enough.
You’re genuinely capable and people see it. But that critical voice in your head keeps whispering that you’re somehow fooling everyone.
And your brain? It’s a disaster forecasting machine. Every situation gets fast-forwarded to the worst possible outcome, keeping you stuck in constant worry.
This is high functioning anxiety.
It’s not obvious anxiety. It’s the kind that hides behind success whilst quietly burning you out from the inside.
It’s just the way our brains are wired for survival. Your amygdala treats everyday situations like genuine threats. With high functioning anxiety, you go into “fight” mode - pushing harder, achieving more. And this constant alert mode is burning you out.
If you’re tired of appearing calm on the outside, whilst the rest of you is paddling like mad just beneath the surface, you can download my anxiety guide.
“10 Ways to Hack Your Anxiety” contains the Top 10 strategies that I use with my 1:1 clients to create lasting calm. It gives you practical, neuroscience-backed techniques to finally break free from that exhausting cycle.
Send me the word GUIDE and I’ll send you the link, so you can start your journey to calm today!