23/02/2026
“Be there for others but never leave yourself behind”
I have a lot of clients who say they have put off coming as there is no time because they are busy caring for others – children, partner, family, work, pets – everything except themselves! They call themselves fixers or people pleasers! Although they enjoy this role and wouldn’t change it they don’t realise the effect it has on them at times!
By the time they see me they are overwhelmed or burnt out!
Is this you?
· You are emotionally & physically exhausted
· You have no patience for the people around you
· You feel hopeless or helpless
· You get sick or injured more often than normal
· You have no time for anything you care about
· You have trouble focusing
· You feel increasingly resentful, then guilty
· Your self esteem is at rock bottom
What can you do?
· Start setting aside time for self-care activities – things for you
that you enjoy
· Start setting boundaries - learn to say no if you feel that
something will be too overwhelming.
· Start asking for help – This doesn’t mean you are weak or
failing, just that you know you need to care for yourself.
· Stay healthy by eating right, exercising, and sleeping more -
exercise is probably the last thing you feel like doing but it
will help you recharge even just a gentle walk and it will also
help you sleep.
· Maintain your personal relationships - don’t withdraw from
family & friends, especially now. These people are your
support network so let them be just that.
· Take more breaks - try to take even mini breaks breaks to
relax – a cup of tea, a short walk, do something you enjoy.
· Spend time outside in nature – Even if you are not an outdoor
person, fresh air, a walk and nature is away from the normal
daily routine and will help you unwind.
But when you are overwhelmed and burnt out all this is hard to do.
That’s where I can help you. I have the tools to help you change the unwanted beliefs and behaviour patterns that are keeping you stuck.
3 sessions using the (non trance – eyes open) CONTROL programme can provide transformational change that will last. Online or Face to Face it’s up to you.
For more info drop me a message or comment below and I’ll get straight back to you
Jackie at MindReset