12/11/2025
🕊️🕯️ With Kind Permission from Mrs Elaine Dorothy Sellers family 🕯️🕊️
🕊️🕯️ Yesterday afternoon I was Privileged to Support a lovely family from My Rochford community in Honouring Life's Memories 🕯️ For a Special Lady, Elaine Dorothy Sellers.
🕊️🕯️ Elaine lived at Coachman Court along the Ashingdon Road for a number of years and was the life and soul of the residents who live there, especially gatherings and functions, joining in and dancing to her love of 60s music.
🕊️🕯️ Her two sons along with her daughter in laws and grandchildren meant everything to her and spending time with them made for the most Precious Memories being made.
🕊️🕯️ Elaine wished for a Traditional yet Simple Funeral so her sons chose the Beautiful Hardwick Medium Oak Veneer Coffin from my coffin manufacturer Steve Soult Limited with a single rose ornament at the head of the coffin. The family decided following mum's wishes that they would meet at Basildon and District Crematorium so a Hearse was only fitting for the final journey. On arrival both her sons walked each side of the Jaguar XJ Hearse the short walk to the Chapel where the rest of the family and friends were gathered. Her sons, grandson and nephew carried her into the chapel, a fitting tribute to her love for them. I was Privileged to also support the family in leading the Celebration of Life service as their minister and before the service started, on Remembrance Day we rose and stood in a minute silence, something Elaine acknowledged each year herself.
After the service the family gathered at the flower terrace before leaving for the reception venue to continue Remembering a very special lady.
🕊️ Rest in Eternal Peace Elaine 🕊️
🌹 My Family Caring for and Supporting Your Family 🌹 In Honouring Life's Memories 🕯️ For All Eternity 🌹