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13/02/2026

10/02/2026

This week is

We know that children’s mental health is shaped early—and relationships matter.
Research shows that early father absence is linked to a higher risk of depression in both girls and boys, with effects that can continue into adulthood.

Both Parents Matter was proud to contribute to the Centre for Social Justice’s Lost Boys report , which highlights not only the impact of fatherlessness on children’s mental health, but the wider, devastating consequences for families and society as a whole.

Supporting children means supporting stable, loving relationships with both parents wherever possible.

https://bothparentsmatter.org.uk/adolescence-male-role-models/

01/02/2026

📣 COMING SOON!
Get ready for Holiday Activities and Food this February Half-Term!
Fun, food, and fantastic activities are back to make your school break unforgettable.
✅ Watch this space for details and booking info!

01/02/2026

Young people aged 11 to 15 years can book a place to create and customise a tote bag this at Lord Louis Library. Everything needed is provided and it's completely free but booking is essential - ring Lord Louis Library on 823823 to book a place.

23/01/2026

A Message of Support for Men Only IOW

It is with genuine sadness that we share the news that Men Only IOW will be closing its doors.

Today, our founder Ross Taylor met with Men Only IOW founder Karl Hart, first and foremost to offer support, respect, and solidarity during what is clearly a very difficult time.

Men Only IOW has played an important role in supporting men across the Isle of Wight, and Karl’s commitment, care, and dedication to those he has helped should not go unrecognised. Stepping away from a service like this is never an easy decision, especially when you know how many people rely on it.

Karl has asked us to help share a message publicly to ensure that no man feels abandoned or alone as Men Only IOW comes to an end.

To any men who have been attending Men Only IOW, or who were considering reaching out for support: you are not alone, and support is still here for you.

At Mindset Bros, we run regular walk and talks, group meet-ups, and community-led events designed to create safe, non-judgemental spaces for men to talk, listen, and simply not carry everything on their own. There is no pressure, no labels, and no expectations just people who understand that sometimes showing up is the hardest part.

If Men Only IOW was your safe place, we want you to know that you are welcome with us. Whether you attend once or become a regular face, the door is open.

This is not about replacing what has been lost, it’s about making sure no one slips through the cracks.

We want to thank Karl personally for trusting us with this message and for the work he has done for men on the Isle of Wight. Community support only works when we stand together, especially at moments like this.

If you or someone you know needs connection, conversation, or simply to walk alongside others who understand, please reach out, attend an event, or drop us a message.

You matter. Your mental health matters. And you do not have to do this alone.

20/01/2026

When a child’s emotional brain takes over, logic and reason switch off — and connection becomes the bridge back to calm.

These phrases don’t fix the feeling; they regulate the brain behind it.
Save this as part of your calm-down toolkit and share with anyone who supports children through big emotions.

You can find more brain-based strategies like this in Managing Big Feelings Toolkit — download from The Contented Child via link in comments or Linktree Store in Bio.