10/02/2026
I always form a deep connection with my clients, and by clients, I mean the dog or cat and their human. Many go on to become friends. But every now and then, there’s one who stays with you, who shapes not only your work, but your life.
In this case, I was initially consulted for an elderly German Shepherd, Bertie, who had developed age-related fears. This was during lockdown, and we worked together virtually. Bertie responded beautifully to gentle botanical support, and his human was deeply devoted to helping him feel safe again.
What I didn’t expect was her cat. I had never seen Hamish. He wasn’t on screen. She hadn’t mentioned him during the discovery call, but even before our very first session, he began to communicate with me. He shared that he was grieving the younger version of Bertie, the dog he’d known for years and that he was feeling left out as his human understandably focused attention was on Bertie’s health and worries. Hamish was insistent that this was shared. I’ll be honest, it took a huge leap of faith to pass this on. I worried it might feel “too woo woo”. Instead, it was received with openness and recognition.
Over the years, Hamish and I had several of these conversations and then came the absolute joy of meeting both Bertie and Hamish in the flesh. Now, Hamish wasn’t a cuddler. He didn’t do strangers. He didn’t do handling. So, when he jumped straight into my arms, I knew without doubt that he recognised me.
This is what his human later shared:
“My cat has never gone to anyone but me, ever. So when he calmly moved into Jules’ arms, I honestly couldn’t believe it. What stood out wasn’t just her knowledge, but how she used gentle botanical support alongside her presence to help him feel safe. There was no rushing, no forcing, just a sense of calm that both my cat and my dog responded to immediately.”
Watching a sensitive cat and a fearful German Shepherd both settle so naturally reminded me, yet again, that this work goes far deeper than behaviour. It’s about coregulation, trust, being heard and the quiet power of botanicals used with deep intuition and understanding.
My work is, and always will be, about connection; creating a safe space where everyone involved is listened to, respected, and supported.