Jess Ellis Coach S3LF

Jess Ellis Coach S3LF The S3LF Method helps ambitious women stop chasing perfection and build real, lasting mental and physical strength and fitness.

I help women who’ve tried it all finally find a way of training that feels right, lasts long, and actually fits their life via the S3LF Method.

Social media has got the younger generation lifting, and I for one, think it’s hugely positive.But it’s left a generatio...
09/03/2026

Social media has got the younger generation lifting, and I for one, think it’s hugely positive.

But it’s left a generation of women feeling like they’ve missed the boat.

Like the gap between those that know what they’re doing and those that don’t, feels greater than ever.

But the boats still there.

You haven’t missed it.

But here’s a stat I think we need to hear more often…

After the age of 30 we lose up to 8% of muscle mass per decade.

And that accelerates after the age of 60.

Most women in their 50s, 60s and 70s are finding this out for the first time.

When my 70 year old client did, she panicked.

Then she started training.

And she has been for 18months now.

She’s much stronger than she was when she started.

She’s still built muscle.

“Too late” isn’t a moment in time.

It’s more so what happens when you keep putting it off.

Everyday you delay is a day your body doesn’t get what it needs.

The confidence gap is bigger the longer you leave it, not because of your ability, but because of the story you keep telling yourself.

The best way to combat a lack of confidence is to do the thing.

Not next month or when you’re ready.

Start before you’re ready.

And if you need a hand, DM me “ready” - this is what I’m here for to help you with.

10/52 On the panel for IWD with  at  in their bathroom of dreams 🥹 oh what a night!Breakfast dates and run club 🏃🏽‍♀️ so...
08/03/2026

10/52

On the panel for IWD with at in their bathroom of dreams 🥹 oh what a night!

Breakfast dates and run club 🏃🏽‍♀️ some niggles this week but we keep moving and listening to the body.

Onto a 90s R&B live orchestra and sleepover with the gals.

Heart full and cup topped up ☕️

Turns out ‘too complicated to study’ was just code for ‘couldn’t be bothered.’ 🙃Women have been underserved, dismissed, ...
07/03/2026

Turns out ‘too complicated to study’ was just code for ‘couldn’t be bothered.’ 🙃

Women have been underserved, dismissed, and designed out of the system for decades.

Knowing that is step one.

Advocating for yourself is step two.

Lifting heavy (and stopping making yourself smaller and underfed) is step three.

Happy International Women’s Day weekend ❤️

Beginner gym-goer thoughts 💭 1️⃣ consistency is queen.2️⃣ motivation will leave the chat - be ready3️⃣ worrying about be...
04/03/2026

Beginner gym-goer thoughts 💭

1️⃣ consistency is queen.

2️⃣ motivation will leave the chat - be ready

3️⃣ worrying about being wrong is like worrying about the rain

4️⃣ be patient & remove the frustration

5️⃣ understand effort - what’s hard, what’s easy, what’s the goal and what are you going to do about it

What did I miss? 👀

Dreaming BIG? I love that for you. But here’s what you need to know…Your goal means nothing if we don’t know why it matt...
02/03/2026

Dreaming BIG? I love that for you. But here’s what you need to know…

Your goal means nothing if we don’t know why it matters to you.

That’s the first thing I ask every single client.

Not to be deep about it, but because when training gets tough (and it will), that why is the thing that gets you out of bed. It’s what we come back to.

Then we get practical. Your time, your schedule, what life actually looks like outside of training. We’re building a program and plan of action around you, not some ideal version of you you’ll find a 16 week race PDF.

From there we figure out what success actually looks like. Finishing your first race? Crossing the line strong and pain free? Chasing a time? All absolutely fair goals. All very different to train for.

And then, the conversation most people skip…expectations.

What this is going to take.

What you might need to give up. What you might have to add in. What you might have to get better at doing.

That’s how I work. That’s the S3LF method.

And right now I’m buzzing to share I’ve got some space for online coaching. Interested in teaching that goal you said? DM me “GOALS” and let’s talk reaching it.

9/52Met the 🐐 .effer at  after years following his wok. Genuinely one of the best educators in the fitness industry and ...
02/03/2026

9/52

Met the 🐐 .effer at after years following his wok. Genuinely one of the best educators in the fitness industry and nicest guys.

New work spots ☕️ thank you cards from clients 🥹 and first aid courses.

Lifted, ate and ran.

Last two slides are an accurate representation of how ultra training has got me feeling right now.

We keep on moving ⚡️

28/02/2026

A little reminder that you can’t control any of it…🙂‍↕️ might as well have a laugh and soak it all in instead ❤️‍🔥

February was the month of ❤️ and it gave me some good reminders about some of the greatest love in my life.Friendships t...
25/02/2026

February was the month of ❤️ and it gave me some good reminders about some of the greatest love in my life.

Friendships that fill up your cup.

Conversations that go deeper than surface level.

Achievements that go beyond the metrics.

I count my lucky stars for my girl friends, and I think one of the reasons I value them is because it feels I’m not only seen, but truly known by the gals.

And that ripples through every conversation I’m in (or often not in when catching up on 163 WhatsApp messages)

And call it cheesy, or deep (but if you know me, you know that’s who I am) but to me it’s a reminder of how who you’re with, what you talk about, how you celebrate life, is a reflection right back at you.

“If you won the fitness lottery, I wouldn’t tell anyone. But there would be signs...” 🎰In my years of coaching, I’ve see...
23/02/2026

“If you won the fitness lottery, I wouldn’t tell anyone. But there would be signs...” 🎰

In my years of coaching, I’ve seen so many women spend years waiting to feel like they’re fit enough to get started.

“I’ll go to the run club once I can run”

“I’ll go to the gym once I feel like I look the part”

Or maybe then spend years waiting for the motivation to kick in.

But for these women, well the writing is on the wall.

Signs like…

Maxing out cable machines and asking for more.

Scrambling up a ‘hard’ hike she never would have picked, and proving she can do hard things.

Nearly 2 hours on feet training for a half marathon that once felt completely out of reach, and feeling strong.

Realising fitness isn’t a phase anymore. It’s just... her life now.

Going to the gym not like a chore, but like Billie Piper, because “she actually wants to.”

That’s not luck.

That’s what happens when you stop waiting and start building.

If you’re tired of starting over and ready to make it stick.

DM me “LUCKY” and let’s get you thriving🍀

8/52The first week I’ve found a struggle with ultra training 😮‍💨 tired but wired.Gigs and pancakes 🥞 a perfect combo.Ont...
22/02/2026

8/52

The first week I’ve found a struggle with ultra training 😮‍💨 tired but wired.

Gigs and pancakes 🥞 a perfect combo.

Onto another great week of doing what I love…helping women get strong, reduce the noise, and passionately pursue what matters to them 📈

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ABOUT S3LF

Jess Neary is a Personal Trainer with a difference. Equipped with a passion for all things fitness and a strong desire to help others achieve their goals. Jess' personal touch and emphasis on building strong relationships provides one thing for her clients. Big results.

She understands that fitness is more than just a way to keep physically fit but also a way to relax the mind. Through her methods, including cardiovascular and resistance training, you'll be pushed to your limits and trained with the right knowledge to help achieve your goals.

"I believe that exercise should be a celebration of what your body is capable of and I know from my own experiences the sense of achievement in reaching something you've worked so hard for. I thrive in helping others realise their potential and with the right guidance and support, it's my job to help find out your motivations and work together to hit your goals."

Jess Neary