06/01/2026
New in 2026 - Compassionate Therapy for Compulsive Sexual Behaviour (CSB) with our associate counsellor Nicola Harpin.
Do you ever feel afraid of your own sexual thoughts or actions — as if they’ve taken on a life of their own? Perhaps you’ve promised yourself “never again”, only to find yourself repeating the same behaviour, followed by waves of shame, anxiety, or self-blame. You may be frightened of what your behaviour means about you, or worried about how it might affect your relationships, work, or sense of self.
You are not broken. What you’re experiencing can be understood — and it can change.
CSB often emerges as a way of coping with difficult emotions such as loneliness, fear, trauma, or inner emptiness. Over time, the behaviour can begin to feel compulsive or even frightening, leaving you feeling powerless and isolated. In therapy, we create a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space to begin making sense of these patterns — gently exploring not just what you do, but why you do it, and what your behaviour might be trying to communicate or soothe.
Together, we’ll work to:
· Understand the emotional roots of your behaviours
· Explore the fears and shame that keep you stuck
· Develop tools to manage urges and anxiety
· Reconnect with your capacity for intimacy, safety, and self-respect
My approach is warm, trauma-informed, and integrative, drawing on psychodynamic, mindfulness, and compassion-focused therapies. I believe healing begins when we can approach our most difficult experiences with curiosity rather than judgement — when we dare to understand the parts of ourselves, we’ve learned to fear or hide.
If you feel frightened or confused by your behaviour, reaching out can be the first step towards clarity, calm, and genuine change.
Email Nicola info@sheffieldcentralcounselling.co.uk to arrange an assessment phone call.