19/10/2025
For some people, staying in their comfort zone is all they know, and it's a comfort zone for a reason as it avoids fear, risk, or making substantial changes. There's nothing wrong with staying in your comfort zone if it doesn't harm your well-being or the well-being of others.
🤬But, if you are staying there to avoid conflict. If you are remaining in a place where you really wish things were different but you feel you have invested (time, love, energy, money) therefore you put up and shut up...well this is the sunk cost fallacy.
The idea that somehow because you have given so much of your money into a project; years into a relationship or energy into supporting a person that giving up would feel to you a huge waste and "if only I just give it a bit more《time/love/money things will get better" is a mentality you need to shift. If it hasn't changed in all this time, why will it suddenly change now?
With maybe only 40-50 years remaining on this planet, do you want to waste another second in or on something that doesn't bring you joy 🤔 when your soul knows that it deserves more?
Growth is in action not complacency
Will you remain complaining about your situation in life whilst doing nothing to change it?
Or will you be brave and with that inner knowing that life could be better if only you risk it and take the leap?
Yes, it's scary. It could cost you initially, but you made it this far, and you will make it work all over again, but this time on your own terms
😍Life isn't about the material things it's about the stuff that makes you smile inside out.
✨️So, go for the business idea you always wanted to set up; leave the crappy relationship; try out that class you've always fancied doing; invest in your own health and fitness. Start pouring love back into you and the life you always dreamed of because this is your one chance.
♥️Be willing to fail over and over for the life you deserve because it's out there, and it will be wonderful.