13/02/2026
🩵 B I R T H S T O R Y 🩵
Photos and story hared with permission from Asha. Thank you Asha for sharing.
“Throughout my whole pregnancy a home water birth was our preference and we did everything to plan for it. I had such a relaxed mindset going into birth which really helped my pregnancy. Mary, my midwife, was such a fantastic support throughout, and fully backed our decisions!
However, at 37 weeks I developed gestational hypertension (high blood pressure caused by pregnancy). My options became a little more limited, however a complex home birth plan was put in place and I could decide on the day how I felt and what the best decision was in that moment. It all hugely helped towards a more relaxed approach to birth!
I had weekly scans from then onwards. I went along to my 41 week scan and although the baby and blood flow was absolutely fine, they hadn’t grown in a couple of weeks. After a lot of discussion at the hospital, with my husband, and with my doula, we made the decision that a relaxed C section was the best option. Mary my midwife was actually not working on that day but specifically asked me to keep her updated, which was really appreciated.
Our C section, although not part of our original home birth plan at all, was incredibly relaxed, with minimal interventions. The consultant on the day eased any of my worries and told me to ask all of the questions (many were silly) that I needed to. After our surprise little boy was born (we had decided to find out at birth!!), I was able to have 4 hours of undisturbed skin to skin with him when he was just a few minutes old!
Once home we saw the lovely Mandy the day after and pretty much all of the Cocos midwives over the next few weeks. In particular, I had fantastic breastfeeding support from Michelle. Those visits in those first few weeks were invaluable and definitely contributed to our successful breastfeeding journey; we are still going 4 months later! Mary also made an extra trip to come and see us 3 weeks post birth in order to just see how we were and discharge us!
I am so grateful for everyone who helped us to have a relaxed birth, even though it wasn’t our plan. Thank you to the Cocos team for all your support. We are so happy and grateful that we have our gorgeous little boy!”