27/03/2026
🐝 🐝 It’s so easy to forget within the rushing, the deadlines, the commitments and chores that we are first and foremost human ‘beings’ not human ‘doings.’
The wisest most profound reflection ever made to me by my first supervisor, in the infancy of my career when I was fretting about not intervening enough to help a client, was, “it isn’t about the ‘doing’ it’s all about ‘being’ with them.”
This changed everything for me and calmness descended upon my practice, and my work has gone from strength to strength since then. His beautiful reflection took me out of my head, straight into the present moment where the ‘being’ happens.
So now when clients rattle off their ‘to do’ lists that are often as long as their arm, I lovingly remind them to try to make sure their ‘to be’ list is much longer.
Being in nature, being in the present moment, being within their breath and most importantly, spending time being with themselves to reflect and process aspects from our sessions, to journal and join those all important dots.
So I really hope reading this has given you a moment to reflect upon your own ‘to be’ list.
For life shouldn’t be about rushing from one thing to the next like a mini tornado, only to wake up to find we are in old age and life has passed us by somehow and we’ve forgotten to exist within it.
We can be present in our lives. We can drink it all in and be amazed by the beauty that surrounds us, the love that still burns bright despite all that’s going on.
All it takes is to remember it’s in our name.
Human beings 🐝🐝