05/02/2026
For many people the hardest part of growing as an individual is saying goodbye!
We often hear people say they shouldn’t have ignored the red flags when someone reveals their true colours to them, many of us see the red flags in others but choose to ignore them for many reasons but we should also be looking for the green flags in people too, the green flags that show us they’re genuine, true, have our backs and only want the best for us!
As we grow in life we outgrow those who’re wanting to hold us back, that doesn’t always mean these people are bad people, it could just mean they’re on a different path to us in life’s journey!
Many people for one reason or another are afraid to let people go, it could be for any reason and we now have generations who’re afraid to lose “friends” or “followers” on social media and that’s somehow spilled over into acquaintances in real life too when often they hardly know these people on a personal level!
Never be afraid to let people go who’re holding you back in life, pulling you down, treating you bad, hurting yourself or others or generally being negative all the time. Also let the ones go who’re always pulling others down to you behind their backs because if they’re saying bad things about others to you then they’ll also be saying bad things about you to others!
Once you let the wrong people in your life and be just your true genuine self then you start to attract the right people into you life, the good people who like you for you and want the best for you!
Once you see the red flags in the wrong people and let them go it can be hard to let others into your life, but it doesn’t have to be, look for the green flags and act accordingly, once you’re surrounded by the right people life gets a lot better!
We’ve all heard the following saying;
“You are the CEO of your own life.
Hire, fire and
promote accordingly”
This isn’t just a saying, this is a rule for who you should allow into your life and who you shouldn’t allow in your life and one way to follow this rule is to use the green flags you see in people as well as the red flags!
Never be afraid to say goodbye to the wrong people and never be afraid to say hello to the right people and welcome them into your life! 🟥❤️🟩