18/09/2025
As I’m using the themes of Autumn for my classes at the moment I’m noticing the phrase “letting go “ sneaking in a bit too often which I’m hoping to stop. I hear it a lot in yoga classes let go of this, let go of that let go of all that doesn’t serve you blah blah blah. If only eh?
Right now I’m experiencing so much anger - the state of the world, some highly annoying family members (it’s never me) and underlying grief which is in the mix. I wish it was that easy to breathe it all out and let it go but it isn’t.
Each morning I set the intention to but, like the autumn leaves in the wind , memories, feelings, and stories swirl up again so maybe the best practice isn’t to let go but to let be instead. Just accept sometimes things feel s**t but trust that it won’t always be this way.
So the practice this autumn is not a dramatic letting go, but a soft presence with what is loosening. To breathe into the ache instead of pushing it away. To trust that what clings will eventually release in its own sweet way. To walk gently with ourselves, as the trees do—quietly, leaf by leaf, surrendering when the time is right.
This too can be our spiritual practice: not forcing release, but softening into life’s natural rhythm of holding and loosening, falling and returning.
As Jeff Foster says
Forget about ‘transcending’ the body.
Love it instead!
Let go of the idea of ‘letting go’.
Instead, let love go deep into the tender places, the parts that ache.
Breathe into your sadness. Let your fear move deep within.
Bow to your uncertainty.
There is an untouchable place in you that fearlessly allows itself to be touched.
Here, even your unworthiness has worth!
And that old feeling that you are unloveable? It is loveable here!
There is so much room in you, friend.
So much room.
There is nothing wrong with you,
including the idea
that there is something wrong with you.
So stop trying to love yourself;
simply be the Self that loves.
And if you fancy NOT letting go in a beautifully crafted yoga practice for the Autumn Equinox there’s still spaces on Sunday at 6pm 6-7.15