21/11/2025
"Meditation has been misguided in the western world. The term just makes a lot of people discouraged. Their understanding of meditation is that they must do it in a completely isolated place, under a tree or in a cave, and starve to death. They believe that meditation means giving up everything: family, home, possessions, wealth. With that conception in mind, the term simple meditation scares them.
But it's not true. Meditation doesn't mean you have to give up everything. The method to develop wisdom is to practice and integrate practice into our daily or mundane activity. That's meditation. Then slowly and gradually our spiritual strength and wisdom develops.
As we develop our qualities within, our virtues, then naturally we detach from worldly affairs; we detach effortlessly from our material possessions and wealth. That detachment happens very naturally, as our inner qualities develop. We don't have to force ourselves to give up anything. It happens effortlessly, as winter yields to summer. As we develop our inner qualities, we will strip of our possessions as easily as we strip of our heavy winter clothes when the season changes to spring. We took the coats off and we no longer need them. As the summer heat arrives, we're ditching our sweaters, effortlessly. Similarly, when our inner development permits, we will effortlessly relinquish possessions and wealth. As if we were from a hostile country to a friendly, favorable one, there is no doubt on our part to leave each other and go to the other, more attractive. Similarly, once we have developed the inner qualities, then we do not hesitate to renounce worldly things. It actually happens by itself.
Everything that happens, all the changes one experiences, are very pleasant. There is no unpleasant experience at all, because it is happening together with one's inner development. Without him, giving things up is very unpleasant. Let's take the example of the Tibetan refugees who, without any choice, had to leave their motherland. Because they were very attached to their land, and were expelled from it, but had not developed their internal qualities sufficiently, the change from Tibet to India was very unfavorable and unpleasant. But with the development of internal qualities, it is not so. It's very nice."
~ Khenpo Karthar Rinpoche.