25/03/2026
Today we met with a family to arrange a private cremation, often referred to as a direct cremation. They were honouring their dad’s wishes, but understandably found it difficult to come to terms with the lack of closure that a traditional service can bring.
We spoke about ways to celebrate his life after the cremation, maybe through a memorial service or a meaningful gathering in a place special to them.
With our private cremations, the smallest details matter, we will ensure his favourite song will play as he enters the chapel and during his final journey, just as he wished.
It’s a simple request, but one that means so much to fulfil.
There is absolutely a place for direct cremations, and many national providers offer a no-fuss service.
However, families often don’t realise the differences when choosing a local independent funeral director.
Here’s a simple comparison to help:
**Using a Local Independent Funeral Director**
✔ Lower cost, simple arrangements
✔ Quick and straightforward process completed
in a timely manner.
✔ Your loved one stays close to home before the
cremation
✔ Care provided by a familiar, dedicated local
team
✔ Personal wishes honoured (clothing, perfume,
keepsakes, letters)
✔ Use of a chapel of rest to say final farewells
✔ Flexibility with routes, music, and meaningful details
✔ Private, dignified transport (not alongside
others)
✔ Individual handover at the crematorium with
respect and ceremony
✔ Opportunity for guidance, support, and
aftercare
✔ Supporting a local family-run business
**Using a Low-Cost Nationwide Provider (TV/Online)**
✔ Lower cost, simple arrangements
✔ Quick and straightforward process
✖ Limited personalisation
✖ Less involvement or visibility for families
✖ Loved one will be cared for outside the local
area
✖ Shared or scheduled cremations
✖ Out of area crematorium
✖ Less opportunity for meaningful moments or
rituals
Every family is different, and every farewell should reflect that.
One type of funeral does not suit everyone and that’s okay.
If you’re unsure, please speak to your local independent funeral directors.
We are here to guide and support you every step of the way 🤍
