27/04/2026
The myth: if it's not working, you need to try harder.
The reality: if it's not working, your body may not feel safe enough yet.
This comes up a lot.
Someone has done the exercises. Followed the programme. Turned up consistently. But something still feels off: their back still aches, their pelvic floor still doesn't feel reliable, and movement still feels effortful.
And the conclusion they often reach is: I must be doing it wrong. I need to work harder. I need a stronger programme.
But efforting more into a nervous system that is already working hard rarely helps.
What helps is less doing.
More noticing.
Where is the tension before you move?
Where does the breath go when you brace?
What is your body trying to protect?
This is not passive. It requires attention and patience.
But it is often where the shift begins.
👉 What has your body been trying to tell you lately?