RubySam Youngz

RubySam Youngz ❦ Helping women release repeating life patterns keeping you stuck in a loop & people-pleasing.

I saw snowdrops this week.1st flower photo of year was a moment of joy, even though it was damn cold!It's the in between...
20/02/2026

I saw snowdrops this week.

1st flower photo of year was a moment of joy, even though it was damn cold!

It's the in between time of Winter and Spring.

A late diagnosis can feel like a long winter at 1st.

Years of surviving

Masking.

Standing in a potential thaw opportunity asking.

Who the hell am I?

Grief for lost years.
For the effort it took to keep going.
For how much energy went into surviving.

There can be new hope.

A flicker of optimism.

Resilience that comes from finally understanding yourself.

Moments of real joy.

A deeper sense of peace.

A quiet renewal.

Not a new me.

A new beginning with the real me.

Snowdrop flower essence supports.

Hope.
Optimism.
Inner strength.
Resilience.
Joy.
Peace.
Moving on.
Renewal.

Not by pushing for an outcome.

Let's stop pushing too hard 🫸

I’ll share the Crystal Herbs Snowdrop essence below for anyone who feels they’re in that thaw and wants to gently support their emotional harmony.

https://www.crystalherbs.com/?aff=32




📷 Sam Youngz

Are You Giving Everyone a Front Row Seat to Your Energy? Without a Ticket?You feel everything. The tension in a room. Th...
18/02/2026

Are You Giving Everyone a Front Row Seat to Your Energy?

Without a Ticket?

You feel everything.

The tension in a room.

The shift in someone’s mood.

The unspoken expectations hanging in the air.

Without realising it, you learnt to adjust yourself, dimming your needs, overextending your energy

Just to fit in.

Your energy is valuable.

Not everyone should have unlimited access to it.

Would you let strangers walk into your house uninvited?

Would you give away your most treasured possessions without a second thought?

No?

Then why do you give away your energy so freely, without boundaries, without limits, without a second thought for you?

It’s not selfish to protect your energy.

It’s not cold to set boundaries.

It’s called self respect.

When you start valuing your energy like the rare, priceless gift it is, everything changes.

Not everyone deserves a front row seat to your life.

📲your 🆓 ️guide ⏬️ and start protecting your energy today

Start the step towards taking back your own power & energy.

🆓️ download

https://rubysamyoungz.ck.page/break-free



🖼 RubySam Youngz

If you live with Audhd you might have experienced the “too much / not enough” loop.Too sensitive.Too empathic.Too direct...
17/02/2026

If you live with Audhd you might have experienced the “too much / not enough” loop.

Too sensitive.
Too empathic.
Too direct.

At the same time as

Not organised enough.
Not consistent enough.
Not understood enough.

Both running in the same brain.

It's exhausting.

Consider a new view

Not

“Why can’t I function like everyone else?”

But

“What allows me to function well?”

That might mean energy accounting instead of time management.

Noticing.

One coffee catch up costs you the whole afternoon.

Back to back appointments wipe you out for two days or more.

Supermarket lights drain you more than the actual shopping.

Deep focus restores you.

Silence restores you.

Cancelling early restores you.

You live with a nervous system that works damn hard.

We enter the year of the fire horse today.

Fire Horse energy doesn’t need taming.

It needs the right environment to run.

Stop trying to override your nervous sytem and start designing life and work around it.



📷 healingenergytools

Naturally Share Love  💚F.REE delivery when you spend 💷 2 5+ Whether you're smitten for Skin Food.All in for Arnica or wa...
16/02/2026

Naturally Share Love 💚

F.REE delivery when you spend 💷 2 5+

Whether you're smitten for Skin Food.

All in for Arnica or want to add a new self care crush to your basket.

Visit my wellbeing advisor webshop

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PLUS

Don't forget to use code FEB10 at checkout to unlock 10% savings on your order.

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Holistic approach nurtures harmony between people and nature.

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Feel the difference of 100 years of expertise and love.

Choose Weleda, and unfold your health and beauty in harmony with nature.

Drop me any questions.

Delivery savings is open until 23.59 today.

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Share the Love, Naturally 💚FREE delivery when you spend £25+Whether you're smitten for Skin Food.All-in for Arnica or wa...
14/02/2026

Share the Love, Naturally 💚

FREE delivery when you spend £25+

Whether you're smitten for Skin Food.

All-in for Arnica or want to add a new sele care crush to your basket.

Your Wellbeing Advisor

Visit my webshop

https://www.weleda-advisor.co.uk/shop/rubysamyoungz/offers.html

PLUS - don't forget to use code FEB10 at checkout to unlock 10% savings on your purchases.

Want to feel healthy and comfortable in your skin in a sustainable way?

Weleda can help. Since 1921, we have been developing products for health and beauty and for a better world.

Our holistic approach nurtures harmony between people and nature.

Discover the power of nature in our NATRUE-certified natural cosmetics and anthroposophic medicines, crafted with pure, organic ingredients from our Biodynamic® gardens worldwide.

Feel the difference of 100 years of expertise and love for what we do.

Choose Weleda, and unfold your health and beauty in harmony with nature.

🎭When you don't know who you are without the mask anymore.I meet you in the messy middle.🫸 Where you can't keep pushing ...
11/02/2026

🎭When you don't know who you are without the mask anymore.

I meet you in the messy middle.

🫸 Where you can't keep pushing through

And

Don’t yet know how to feel comfy in different.

DM to start a convo on how I might be able to support you feel less like an imposter in your own body.

Last Quarter Moon in Scorpio 🌗♏Time of 🌗 Release / Let go / Cleanse🌗 Make change🌗 Internal reflection🌗 Notice if your en...
09/02/2026

Last Quarter Moon in Scorpio 🌗♏

Time of

🌗 Release / Let go / Cleanse
🌗 Make change
🌗 Internal reflection
🌗 Notice if your energy is decreasing

If you are sensitive & feel the influence of the moon cycle & external cosmic energies, you may notice your energy & emotion levels dipping as we move toward the New Moon on 17th.

With the Moon in Scorpio, emotions can feel deeper and closer to the surface. Old feelings, memories, or patterns can come up to be acknowledged.

We are in the final days of the Year of the Snake in the Chinese zodiac.

There might feel like internal tap on the shoulder of the last bits of shedding old skin. Outgrowing parts of your life, habits, or identity, even if you can’t fully explain it yet.

Energy may feel lower.
Sleep may feel different.
Emotions may ebb and flow more than usual.

Remember to manage your activity so you don’t use up your limited energy as you head toward the New Moon.

Be extra kind & thoughtful with any self talk about yourself.

☀️You are the sun centre of your own universe.

Focus in self care.

🌿 New from next month

From next month, I’ll be offering a short, free remote healing session to support the emotional dips and energetic shedding that can surface during this phase.

If you’d like to join these free monthly sessions…

Comment “MOON” or send me a DM to show your interest 🌙

I’ll share the details with everyone who reaches out.

In the words of my one and only Robbie Williams.

"Go Gentle" with yourself this week

What do you know and what expertise do you have that could be passed on to others?You're a talented starlight ✨️ Somebod...
08/02/2026

What do you know and what expertise do you have that could be passed on to others?

You're a talented starlight ✨️

Somebody out there needs your wisdom...

Burn baby Burn 🕯🔥🕯🐎🦓




🖼 The Heart Speaks

Who Are You Without People-Pleasing?You’ve spent years moulding yourself around what others expect, need, or want from y...
04/02/2026

Who Are You Without People-Pleasing?

You’ve spent years moulding yourself around what others expect, need, or want from you…but who are you when you’re not managing everyone else’s emotions?

Maybe you think you people-please because you’re kind, caring, and deeply empathetic. And you are.

But here’s something you might not have realised…

You don’t people-please because something is wrong with you. You do it because you’re gifted.

✨ You’re intuitive
you just know what others need before they say a word.

✨ You’re a healer
your presence soothes, your energy uplifts.

✨ You’re wise
you see the bigger picture, you hold space for others to grow.

But somewhere along the way, that gift turned into a survival strategy.

You learned that keeping the peace kept you safe. That meeting everyone else’s needs kept you loved. That saying yes, even when it drained you, kept you worthy.

But it never feels enough...you don't feel good enough.

Not because you’re broken. But because no one ever taught you how to use your gifts for yourself too.

Until now.

Inside my mini ebook ⏬️

You'll start the process of stepping into who you truly are.

Step onto the path to find out how to

✨ Honour your sensitivity without letting it exhaust you

✨ Set boundaries in a way that feels natural

✨ Shift from overgiving to self-mastery, where your gifts finally work for you, not against you

Your ability to care for others is powerful. But imagine what your life could look like if you turned that same love, wisdom, and intuition inward.

That’s where your freedom begins.

Start the step towards taking back your own power & energy.

🆓️ download

https://rubysamyoungz.ck.page/break-free

🖼 RubySam Youngz

🌕 Full Moon in Leo | 13° | 10:09pm GMTCelebrate your unique gifts.Feel into them with the peak energy of the full moon.A...
01/02/2026

🌕 Full Moon in Leo | 13° | 10:09pm GMT

Celebrate your unique gifts.

Feel into them with the peak energy of the full moon.

A robot can't replace or truly reveal you unique talents.

Humans need human connection more and more.

Moon in Leo energy.
Fire sign ruled by the Sun.

Reclaim the parts of you that have been forgotten as the sun returns with longer days.

The dreams and visions.

A new way of being.

If you need a starting point to open up more clarity on your new way of being after a late diagnosis so life doesn't feel so hard.

DM me about Spirit Points.

Also my monthly reminder don't forget to charge up your crystals!

Image by RubySamYoungZ

Why did life feel so much harder after a late diagnosis and why did it feel like I’m barely holding it together?You’re w...
30/01/2026

Why did life feel so much harder after a late diagnosis and why did it feel like I’m barely holding it together?

You’re worn out from decades of pushing through in ways your system was never built for.

You know you’ve got potential. You can feel there’s more in you, more you want to do, create, become.

But right now? Even basic life feels way too F Bomb heavy.

You try tools and forget them.

You want to start things but never end up finishing them or even starting them.

You’re anxious and on edge, like the smallest thing might tip you over.

You’re judging yourself for not handling this better and are soul tired.

You’re grieving the years you didn’t understand yourself.

You’re scared of getting it wrong, being judged, or burning out permanently so you stay stuck and then beat yourself up inside.

It’s not lack of ability.
It’s a system that’s overloaded and a heart that’s buried under survival mode.

I was recently reminded about the gentle power of Spirit Point sessions when I made up the numbers on the latest training cohort and received a full session in return.

It’s a gentle, body based energy approach that helps release where you’re stuck and reconnect you with your inner clarity and direction, not from pressure, but from your heart and deeper self.

When those inner blocks begin to release, things don’t feel so impossible. You get more space and more access to the part of you that actually knows what you want and who you are becoming.

I was spinning too many plates, leaking energy in places I was helping out in so decisions have been made to cut ties and look at where I can get the the right support for me and I'd love to do the same for you.

If you’re tired of knowing you have potential but feeling too stuck and exhausted to live it.

DM me to talk about Spirit Points and whether this support is what you need right now. It is a taster way of working with me.


If you’ve always felt different.Like you don’t quite fit or belong anywhere.You’re deeply sensitive in a world that ofte...
28/01/2026

If you’ve always felt different.

Like you don’t quite fit or belong anywhere.

You’re deeply sensitive in a world that often misunderstands you.

But fully showing your unique zebra stripes?
That can feel hard.

Vulnerable. Exposing.

The galactic part speaks to that sense of being connected to something bigger.

The stars, spirit, other realms, unseen guidance.

You feel it in your bones.
Your soul feels ancient.

And still… you’re here, in a human body, trying to make sense of this world.


Not too sensitive.
Just wired differently in a world not built for your frequency.


Here’s what I’ve seen again and again in myself and client.

I call us Galactic Zebras

1️⃣ You’ve Always Felt Different

Even in a room full of people you know and like, you feel slightly outside of it,
observing from the edges.

You’ve wondered, “Did everyone else get a manual for being human that I somehow missed?”

You don’t fit into neat boxes or expected paths.

You may have learned to watch others closely, copy behaviours, or rehearse how to be normal, without realising you were masking who you truly are.

2️⃣ You Feel Homesick for ‘Somewhere Else’

There’s a deep longing inside you.
A homesickness for a place you can’t name.

A sense that there’s a way of being where you’d finally exhale and feel fully at home

It might not even be on this planet.

3️⃣ You’re Hyper Sensitive (to People, Places, Energies)

You feel everything.
The good, the heavy, the beautiful, the uncomfortable.

Crowds, noise, smells, harsh words, criticism, other people’s emotions can overwhelm you fast.

You pick up the “vibe” of a room before a word is spoken
and sometimes mistake those feelings for your own.

Your nervous system takes in more information, more deeply, than most.

4️⃣ Your Brain, Heart & Soul Don’t Work Like Everyone Else’s

The way you think, feel, and process the world seems different.

Other people’s behaviours can confuse or baffle you.
You see things they don’t. Feel things they miss.

Masking. People-pleasing. Over-giving.

They are survival strategies.

They can leave you soul and bone tired.

5️⃣ You Have a Strong Connection to Nature & the Cosmos

You feel deeply at peace with your feet on the earth, under the moon, by the sea, in the woods, or staring at the stars.

Nature feels regulating. Calming.

You know the seasons, moon cycles, and planetary movements affect you, not just emotionally, but physically and energetically too.

6️⃣ You’re Drawn to Spiritual or Mystical Practices

Crystals. Tarot. Astrology. Flower remedies. Shamanism. Energy work. Herbalism. Spirit.

You’re naturally curious about what lies beyond the physical world.

You’ve had synchronicities, unexplainable experiences, or a quiet inner knowing that spirit is always near.

7️⃣ You Feel Like Your Life Has Been One Big Test

Challenge after challenge. Heartbreak after heartbreak.

It can feel like the Universe keeps handing you lessons on repeat,
as if you were chosen for something bigger.

Especially when you’ve spent years feeling misunderstood, unsupported, or blaming yourself
for struggling in systems that were never designed for how your brain and nervous system work.

8️⃣ You Feel Responsible for Breaking Generational Patterns

You see the family patterns, the pain, the silence, the dysfunction.

And something deep inside says, “It stops with me.”

Even if you don’t fully know how, you feel called to do the inner work
so it isn’t passed down any further.

9️⃣ You Transmute Pain Into Power

No matter what you go through, something in you rises.

You don’t just want to survive your experiences, you feel called to turn them into wisdom, compassion, and light for others.

🔟 You’re a Keeper of Both Wounds & Wisdom

You sense you carry more than your own story.

Ancestral threads. Old grief. Ancient strength.

You feel those who came before you —
and know that by tending to yourself, you’re tending to them too.

🦓🌌🦓

Your stripes.
Your sensitivity.
Your struggles.
Your cosmic connection and deep roots in the earth.

It can make the “human” parts of life feel confusing and chaotic at times.

You are here to break cycles.
To remember who you are.
To turn wounds into wisdom.

Star-born. Earth-rooted.
A living bridge between worlds.

You’re Here to Help… But You’re Tired

You feel the call to support, guide, uplift.
But you also know burnout, fatigue, self-doubt, and wondering where you belong.

If you see yourself in this…

If you’ve always felt different…

You might just be a Galactic Zebra too.

And you don’t have to walk this strange, beautiful path alone. 🦓

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