Cara Phelps Cognitive Hypnotherapy

Cara Phelps Cognitive Hypnotherapy Personalised therapy and coaching for adults and children. Treating people not labels!

Free yourself from anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, unwanted habits, fears, phobias and limiting beliefs to become more conscious and create a better future! Empowering women and girls in Somerset & Dorset to overcome anxiety, trauma, and stress with online Cognitive Hypnotherapy.

For the mum who keeps going You gave everything to everyone. And somehow still feel like you’re not doing enough.This is...
09/03/2026

For the mum who keeps going

You gave everything to everyone. And somehow still feel like you’re not doing enough.

This is for the mum who hasn’t slept properly in years.

Who makes the lunches, remembers the appointments, holds the family together and then lies awake at 1am with a mind that won’t stop running.

The one who snapped at the kids today and has been quietly punishing herself for it ever since.

Who can’t remember the last time someone asked how she was and actually waited for the answer.

“I should be more patient.”

“I should be more grateful.”

“Other mums seem to cope ,why can’t I?”

That voice isn’t the truth.

It’s a pattern that you learned long before you became a mother and it’s running quietly in the background of everything you do.

Cognitive Hypnotherapy works directly with that part of your mind.

Not years of talking about the past. Not being told to “practice self-care.”

Real, lasting change at the level where the pattern actually lives.

Mums I work with describe it as finally feeling like themselves again.
Calmer.
Lighter.
Less like they’re failing and more like they’re enough.

You’ve spent years putting everyone else first. You’re allowed one hour that’s just for you.

Drop a 👍 in the comments or send me a message.

I offer a free 30-minute call to chat through what you’re experiencing. No pressure. No jargon. Just a real conversation.

You’ve tried everything to help your child, right?Therapy. Medication. Different schools. Parenting strategies. Conseque...
08/03/2026

You’ve tried everything to help your child, right?

Therapy. Medication. Different schools. Parenting strategies. Consequences. Rewards.

And nothing’s really worked.

Want to know why?

Because you’re trying to change them instead of changing yourself.

And you can’t control them. You never could.

The only person you have control over is you.

Your thoughts. Your emotions. Your reactions. Your nervous system. Your healing.

And here’s the incredible part: when you change those things, when you heal yourself and regulate yourself, your child responds.

Not because you controlled them into it.

Because you changed the environment they’re living in.

You stopped being a source of stress and became a source of safety.

That’s the only thing that actually works.

Ready to focus on what you can control? Book a free call or message me. Let’s start there.


You’re not overwhelmed because you’re weak, you’re overwhelmed because you’re human.You are trying to parent, work, hold...
03/03/2026

You’re not overwhelmed because you’re weak, you’re overwhelmed because you’re human.

You are trying to parent, work, hold relationships together, manage emotions (yours and everyone else’s)…
while your body has been stuck in crisis mode for years.

Of course you’re tired.

Your nervous system wasn’t designed to be on alert 24/7.

It wasn’t meant to:

• anticipate every problem
• prevent every meltdown
• carry everyone’s feelings
• replay every mistake at 2am

But when you grew up learning that being “strong” kept you safe…
your body never really switched off.

So now even small things feel big.

Even normal parenting moments feel urgent.

And you blame yourself for not coping better.

This isn’t weakness.

This is a nervous system that hasn’t felt safe in a long time.

And overwhelm isn’t a personal failure.

It’s a signal.

A signal that you need support, not more pressure.

If you’re done living in constant overwhelm let’s chat ❤️

https://www.caraphelps.co.uk/

To the woman who looks fine…but feels empty inside.You’re exhausted in a way sleep doesn’t fix.Overthinking everything.H...
24/02/2026

To the woman who looks fine…but feels empty inside.

You’re exhausted in a way sleep doesn’t fix.
Overthinking everything.
Holding it together for everyone else.

Quietly wondering, “What’s wrong with me?”

Nothing is wrong with you.

This isn’t weakness.

It’s a nervous system stuck in survival mode.

It’s old beliefs like “I’m not enough” running on repeat in the background.

And you can change that.

Cognitive Hypnotherapy works with the subconscious patterns driving how you feel - not just the surface thoughts.

✨ Calm the overwhelm
✨ Break negative loops
✨ Rebuild self-worth
✨ Feel like yourself again

You don’t have to push through.

You don’t have to pretend.

You don’t have to do this alone.

If this feels like it was written for you…

Message me “READY.”

Sessions can be online or in person at Spire Hill Well-Being, Stalbridge.

16/02/2026

✨ NEW PROGRAM: Thrive Together ✨

If you’re a mum who’s been holding everything together with shaking hands and a tired heart… this is for you.

For 12 weeks, we’ll work together 1:1 to help you:

• Feel calmer and more in control
• Release the guilt that keeps you awake at night
• Stop second-guessing yourself
• Build emotional resilience
• Reconnect with your children
• Finally feel like the good mum you already are

This trauma-informed program provides personalised support to heal your past, transform your present and create real, lasting change for the future.

Changing not just your life but your child's life too!

I created this because I was you - overwhelmed, exhausted, and blaming myself for everything my children went through.

You don’t have to do this alone.

Comment “THRIVE” below or DM me for the full details and to book your free Thrive Together Assessment.

Struggling with your child's anxiety?Download my FREE ebook - Calm Together - a practical guide to helping you support y...
09/02/2026

Struggling with your child's anxiety?

Download my FREE ebook - Calm Together - a practical guide to helping you support your child and yourself.

https://caraphelps.com/ebook

If you’ve been shutting down emotionally for as long as you can remember, forget trying to “stay strong” or “push throug...
05/02/2026

If you’ve been shutting down emotionally for as long as you can remember, forget trying to “stay strong” or “push through” when it comes to parenting.

Instead, start noticing when the part of you that used to need protection is the one still running the show.

Because that’s not strength. That’s a nervous system in survival.

Sometimes… what looks like calm is often just emotional shutdown.

The coping you learned to survive, (keeping quiet, staying in control, avoiding vulnerability), is now crowding out the connection you long for with your child.

And that’s not your fault.

But it is a signal for healing.

Here’s what helps you break this cycle from the inside out:

🔹 Spot your inherited coping role
Were you the peacekeeper? The achiever? The invisible one?

Ask: What did I have to shut down in myself to feel safe growing up?
That’s often what resurfaces now, in motherhood.

🔹 Separate identity from adaptation
You’re not the fixer. Or the martyr. Or the one who “just gets on with it.”
You became those things to feel loved.

You can retire those roles with respect, not shame.

🔹 Update the script where it was written
This lives in the subconscious.
That’s why cognitive hypnotherapy works.
You’re not trying to change on the surface, you’re healing from the roots.

You might think rebuilding connection with your child means overhauling everything. But I’ve seen mums shift their responses, with softness, not force, by reframing just one survival script at a time.

Comment THRIVE to get details of my 12 week program so you can parent with calm, connection, and confidence, even if you weren’t modelled it yourself.

Only 2 days left to take advantage of this offer!DM “JAN26” to book your FREE consultation call and lock in this price. ...
30/01/2026

Only 2 days left to take advantage of this offer!

DM “JAN26” to book your FREE consultation call and lock in this price.

To give those new year resolutions a boost when your motivation might be waning, consider tackling your problem at the r...
19/01/2026

To give those new year resolutions a boost when your motivation might be waning, consider tackling your problem at the root - your unconscious!

DM me "JAN26" to take advantage of this offer.

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