05/12/2025
“It was the best of times; it was the worst of times.”
These familiar words, capture the contrasting emotions many people feel as Christmas approaches when someone they love is no longer here.
We have just published a blog by Dr Bill Webster on the Countryside Funerals website, focusing on navigating the Christmas season when you are grieving. It offers gentle guidance for those who may be finding this time of year especially difficult.
As Dr Bill reflects, “When someone you care about dies, words cannot express the depths of the grief we often experience. It feels like the worst of times.” The festive period can intensify emotions - memories feel sharper, traditions can feel heavier, and the absence of a loved one is often felt more deeply.
His guidance offers both compassion and practical suggestions for managing the weeks ahead; discussing the importance of allowing yourself to feel what you feel, remembering the person in meaningful ways, and recognising that it is completely natural if your experience of Christmas has changed. He also shares gentle ideas that may help - from creating new traditions to giving yourself permission to step back when needed.
If you or someone close to you is finding this time of year especially difficult, we hope his words bring comfort and reassurance.
You can read the full blog over on our website: https://countrysidefunerals.co.uk/a-different-christmas-this-year/