Counsellor/Psychotherapist MNCPS (Acc)-Hypnotherapist (ACCPH). Counsellor & Psychotherapist. A Gentle and Explorative Approach to Counselling!
Offering Counselling-Psychotherapy Treatments:
Anxiety and Stress Management
Self-Development and Self Esteem
Confidence
Fears and Phobias
Emotional Issues
Depression
Relationship Problems
P.T.S.D. Anger Management
Pain Management
Habit Reversal
Specific Counselling for Women
Women and Menopause
Coaching and more. (For other Modalities visit the 'Mindfulness & Hypnosis for Change' page on our Website).
12/11/2025
A Counsellor’s Genuine Care for Their Clients
Genuine care in counselling goes beyond empathy — it is the quiet, consistent presence that holds another person’s pain with respect, patience, and understanding. A counsellor’s role is not to fix or advise, but to walk alongside a client as they find their own way through difficulty. Genuine care means listening deeply, without judgment or assumption, creating a safe space where every feeling is valid and every silence is accepted. It is shown through warmth, authenticity, and the belief that each person holds the capacity for growth and healing. True therapeutic care is steady and grounded — a relationship built on trust, compassion, and the simple but powerful act of being fully present. https://al-counselling.co.uk
01/11/2025
Investing in Your Wellbeing — Not Only When There Are Problems - Mindfulness for Wellbeing.
Many people seek therapy or wellbeing support only when life feels overwhelming — when anxiety peaks, relationships strain, or exhaustion sets in. But investing in your wellbeing doesn’t have to wait until you’re struggling. In fact, some of the most powerful healing and growth happen when you choose to nurture yourself while life is going well.
When We Usually Reach Out for Support
We often seek help when we’re facing challenges like:
• Anxiety or stress that feels unmanageable
• Depression or emotional numbness
• Grief, loss, or trauma
• Relationship difficulties or breakups
• Low confidence or self-worth
• Burnout, fatigue, or constant overwhelm
• Feeling “stuck” or disconnected from yourself
These moments can be deeply painful — and therapy offers a safe space to process, heal, and rebuild. But your wellbeing is so much more than just managing crises.
Wellbeing as Ongoing Care
Think of your emotional wellbeing like physical health. You don’t wait until you’re seriously ill to eat nourishing food, exercise, or rest — you do these things to stay well. Emotional care works the same way.
When your wellbeing is strong, therapy or self-development can help you:
• Deepen self-awareness and emotional intelligence
• Strengthen boundaries and confidence• Improve communication and relationships
• Build resilience before stress escalates
• Maintain balance, peace, and joy
• Create space for personal growth and purpose
Choosing to Grow, Not Just to Cope
Working on yourself from a place of stability allows you to explore life’s deeper layers — your dreams, values, and sense of fulfillment. It’s about evolving, not just surviving.
You begin to understand yourself more fully, build healthier habits, and create emotional strength that sustains you during life’s challenges.
Wellbeing as a Lifelong Investment
Investing in your wellbeing is an act of self-respect. It says, “I value myself enough to nurture my mind, body, and spirit — not just when I’m hurting, but every day.” Whether
through counselling, hypnotherapy, mindfulness, or self-reflection, your commitment to growth helps you live with more clarity, balance, and peace.
You don’t need to be in crisis to seek support — you simply need the desire to know yourself better and live well.
Because your wellbeing matters, always!
29/10/2025
Specific Integrative Counselling for Women
■ A safe, supportive space to heal, grow, and re-discover yourself.
Life can feel overwhelming at times — balancing relationships, responsibilities, work,
and emotional wellbeing. Our counselling sessions for women offer a calm,
confidential space where you can pause, reflect, and receive the support you deserve.
■ Support for a Range of Women’s Issues:
• Anxiety, stress, and emotional exhaustion
• Depression or low mood
• Relationship or family challenges
• Self-esteem and body image concerns
• Trauma recovery and inner healing
• Life transitions — motherhood, menopause, loss, or change
• Boundaries, confidence, and identity
• Overwhelm, guilt, and people-pleasing patterns
■ Why Choose Counselling?
Counselling helps you explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe, understanding
environment. Through gentle conversation, reflection, and guidance, you can begin to
understand your emotions, find clarity, and reconnect with your inner strength.
■ A Space Just for You
Every woman’s story is unique — and your healing journey deserves care and
respect. Whether you’re seeking relief from emotional pain, or simply space to
reconnect with yourself, this is a place to feel heard, supported, and empowered.
■ Begin Your Journey Today:
You don’t have to face everything alone. Let’s walk this path together — with warmth,
compassion and understanding.
Morning & Daytime Sessions Available — (Monday to Friday), taking place at my wonderful, peaceful practice room in Dartington Estate.
■ Book your Initial Counselling Appointment (60 or 90 minutes) – cost £55 ph. (concessions available).
Contact – Anita Lennox
T:07837 683425 (text messaging available with answer service) 24 hour response time.
How Hypnotherapy Helps Calm Anxiety & Alleviate Depression!
Feeling anxious can leave you exhausted — your mind racing, heart pounding, and body tense.
If you’ve tried to “just relax” but can’t seem to quiet your thoughts, hypnotherapy may be the gentle support you need.
What Is Hypnotherapy?
Hypnotherapy uses deep relaxation and focused guidance to help you access your subconscious mind — the part of your mind that stores habits, memories, and emotional patterns. In this calm, peaceful state, your mind becomes more open to
positive change.
How It Helps with Anxiety:
• Calms the nervous system and slows racing thoughts
• Replaces worry and fear with calm, confident thinking
• Helps you release old emotional triggers
• Restores balance, focus, and better sleep
• Builds lasting self-trust and inner peace
A Gentle Path to Calm:
You stay fully in control and aware throughout each session — it’s simply a guided, peaceful process that helps your mind learn how to relax again. Over time, you begin to feel lighter, calmer, and more confident in handling life’s challenges.
Hypnotherapy doesn’t just manage anxiety — it helps you transform it from the inside out. It can also helps to lift the effects of Depression.
How Does Hypnotherapy Help with Depression?
Hypnotherapy offers a gentle, supportive way to lift the emotional weight of depression by working with the subconscious mind — where negative patterns and self-beliefs often begin. Through deep relaxation and positive suggestion, it helps you release feelings of hopelessness, rebuild self-worth, and reconnect with motivation and joy. Over time, hypnotherapy helps restore balance, optimism, and a renewed sense of purpose from within.
The Benefits of Hypnotherapy for Depression:
Gently releases negative thoughts and emotional blocks
Encourages positive thinking and self-belief
Helps rebuild confidence and motivation
Promotes deep relaxation and mental clarity
Reduces feelings of sadness, guilt, or overwhelm
Supports healthy sleep and energy levels
Strengthens emotional resilience and inner calm
Helps heal unresolved grief or past emotional pain
Encourages self-compassion and acceptance
Restores hope, balance, and a sense of purpose
Begin Your Journey towards Calm Today and take the first step toward feeling more balanced and at ease.
Whether you’re experiencing daily stress or long-term anxiety & depression, hypnotherapy can help you reconnect with your natural sense of calm and confidence.
Contact below to book an Initial Counselling/Hypnotherapy Appointment. Anita Lennox (Counsellor. MNCPs.Acc)
Counselling in Totnes and Exeter in Devon and Online with registered counsellor and therapist Anita Lennox who offers a holistic approach to healing.
07/10/2025
Case Study: Loneliness and Failed Relationships
A Woman’s Journey Toward Connection
Background
Sarah, a 42-year-old woman, sought counselling due to persistent feelings of lonelinessand a pattern of unsuccessful relationships. Recently divorced and living alone for the first time in over a decade, she described herself as “socially withdrawn, tired of trying, and unsure who I am without someone.”
She reported that her romantic relationships tended to start passionately but quickly became emotionally exhausting. Each breakup deepened her sense of failure, reinforcing the belief that she was “unlovable” and “too much.” Her loneliness was not limited to romantic loss — she felt disconnected from friends, her family, and even her own needs.
Presenting Issues
• Chronic loneliness and emotional isolation
• Low self-esteem and self-worth tied to relationship validation
• Anxiety about rejection or abandonment
• Difficulty setting and maintaining boundaries
• A tendency to over-invest emotionally in new partners
Therapeutic Goals
1. To build emotional awareness and self-connection.
2. To explore and challenge negative core beliefs about self-worth.
3. To understand relational patterns and attachment dynamics.
4. To develop healthy boundaries and self-soothing techniques.
5. To cultivate fulfilment and purpose beyond romantic relationships.
Therapeutic Approach
The counsellor adopted an integrative approach combining Person-Centred Therapy,
Attachment Theory, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and Mindfulness and
Compassion-Focused Techniques to nurture emotional regulation and self-acceptance.
Counselling Process
Initially, Sarah struggled to identify her emotions, often intellectualising experiences rather than feeling them. Mindfulness exercises helped her slow down and recognise sensations of sadness, anxiety, and longing. Through journaling and guided reflection, she began to see how her fear of abandonment stemmed from inconsistent care in childhood.
By session six, Sarah recognised that she often sought validation through care-takingroles in relationships — “I make myself indispensable so they won’t leave.” Together, counsellor and client explored this belief, reframing it as a learned strategy for safety rather than proof of weakness.
As therapy progressed, she practiced saying “no” in small, low-risk situations and discovered that boundaries could create emotional safety rather than rejection. Herself-talk softened from “I’m unlovable” to “I am learning to love myself.” Mindfulness-based self-compassion practices supported her between sessions, allowing her to sit with feelings of loneliness without rushing to fill the void with external approval.
Outcome
After four months, Sarah reported feeling calmer, more grounded, and less driven by fear of rejection. While she still desired partnership, her focus had shifted toward building authentic friendships, re-engaging with hobbies, and appreciating solitude as restorative rather than punishing.
She described this change simply: “I’m finally starting to like my own company — and that’s something I never thought possible.”
Reflections
This case highlights the deep link between attachment wounds, loneliness, and the search for validation in relationships. For women with similar experiences, therapy provides a path to reconnect with the self — transforming loneliness from a sign of failure into an invitation for growth and self-acceptance.
In the quiet moments between everything you must do, there is a gentle invitation to simply be. For many women, life moves quickly — filled with the needs of others, work commitments, family roles, and the constant hum of responsibility. Yet somewhere beneath the noise, your own stillness is waiting. Mindfulness is the art of returning home to yourself — not by changing who you are, but by learning to pause and reconnect with what truly matters.
The Art of Slowing Down:
Mindfulness reminds us that peace doesn’t come from doing more, but from noticing more. When you slow down enough to breathe deeply, to taste your tea, to feel sunlight across your skin, you begin to inhabit your life more fully. This practice is not about perfection; it’s about presence — about meeting yourself with curiosity instead of criticism.
Living Life to the Full:
Life is too short not to invest in your well-being. The more you nourish your inner world, the more energy, compassion, and clarity you have to share with others. Mindfulness helps transform the ordinary into something sacred — a walk becomes grounding, a meal becomes gratitude, a breath becomes peace. When you commit to caring for yourself, you begin to live life to the full — awake to the small joys that were always there.
Gentle Mindfulness Practice:
Take a few moments each day to pause:
1. Sit comfortably and close your eyes.
2. Breathe in through your nose, feeling the air move through your chest and belly.
3. Exhale slowly through your mouth, releasing tension.
4. Bring your awareness to the present — the sounds, sensations, and feelings around you.
5. Notice your thoughts as they come and go, but don’t chase them. Let them be.
Each breath invites you back to yourself — to the safety of this very moment.
Reflection:
The greatest act of self-care is presence. The more you come home to yourself, the more peace you bring to the world around you.
Counselling & Psychotherapy: When a Relationship Does Not Serve You Anymore *Case Study*. https://al-counselling.co.uk/
There comes a time in life when you begin to question whether a relationship is bringing you joy, growth, and comfort—or whether it is slowly draining your energy.
For me, the answer came quietly, not with arguments or dramatic endings, but with the realisation that I was no longer myself in the presence of someone I once loved deeply.
At first, I told myself it was a phase. Relationships have ups and downs, and I clung to the memories of happier days. But as weeks turned into months, I noticed how often I silenced my own needs, avoided speaking my truth, or felt small in their
company. The laughter that once flowed so easily had been replaced by a heaviness I couldn’t ignore.
Admitting that a relationship no longer serves you is one of the hardest steps you can take. It feels like letting go of a piece of your past, and with it, the dreams you once held together. But it is also an act of courage—a choice to put your well-being, your peace of mind, and your future first.
Walking away does not mean the relationship was a failure. It simply means that its purpose in your life has been fulfilled. Sometimes people come into our lives to teach us lessons, to help us grow, or to remind us of our own strength.
Letting go opens the door for new connections, deeper self-love, and relationships that align with who we are becoming.
Many women carry the weight of multiple roles—mother, daughter, partner, professional, caregiver, and friend. In the rush to meet expectations and care for others, it is easy to neglect the person at the centre: ourselves. Self-compassion is not a luxury; it is a necessity. It means treating ourselves with the same kindness, patience, and understanding that we freely offer to others.
Self-compassion begins with recognising our humanity. Everyone makes mistakes, feels overwhelmed, or struggles at times. Instead of criticising ourselves harshly, we can pause, take a breath, and remind ourselves: 'I am doing my best with what
I have.' This gentle shift in mindset allows us to heal, grow, and keep moving forward without being burdened by guilt or shame.
For women, practicing self-compassion may involve setting healthy boundaries, taking time to rest, or saying 'no' when needed. It might also mean celebrating small achievements, forgiving ourselves for imperfections, and remembering that
worth is not tied to productivity.
By honouring our own needs, we build resilience
and strength—not only for ourselves but also for those who depend on us.
To say 'I deserve self-compassion' is to affirm that kindness begins within. When we nurture ourselves with understanding and care, we create the foundation for a healthier, happier, and more balanced life.
11/09/2025
Women's Growth Group: Feel Relief from the Symptoms of Menopause: Coping and Support:
Menopause is a natural stage in a woman’s life, usually occurring between the ages of 45 and 55, that marks the end of menstrual cycles. It is caused by changes in hormone levels, particularly a reduction in oestrogen and progesterone. While menopause is a normal transition, the symptoms can feel challenging and may affect daily life. Common experiences include hot flushes, night sweats, fatigue, mood changes, anxiety, disrupted sleep, and difficulties with concentration. For some women, these changes may also affect self-esteem, relationships, and overall well-being.
Coping Mechanisms:
• Balanced diet – Eating nutritious meals supports energy levels and overall health.
• Regular exercise – Physical activity boosts mood, reduces stress, and helps maintain
bone strength.
• Mindfulness and relaxation – Techniques such as meditation, deep breathing, or yoga can ease anxiety and improve sleep.
• Sleep hygiene – Creating a calming bedtime routine and limiting caffeine or screen time can improve rest.
• Open conversations – Talking with friends, family, or support groups can reduce feelings of isolation.
• Professional support – Medical advice, including possible treatments like HRT, can help with managing symptoms.
The Role of Counselling:
Counselling offers a safe, supportive space to explore the emotional impact of menopause, manage stress, and build personalised coping strategies. It can help restore confidence, improve relationships, and support a positive outlook during this stage of life. Menopause is not just an ending but a new beginning—a time to focus on personal well-being and growth.
If you are finding the transition difficult, counselling can help you
navigate challenges with resilience, confidence, and clarity. Support is available—you don’t have to go through this journey alone. https://al-counselling.co.uk/
10/09/2025
Do you need help to work through Anxiety?
Anxiety can show up in many ways, including constant worry, racing thoughts, restlessness, difficulty concentrating, sleep problems, and physical symptoms such as a fast heartbeat, sweating, or shortness of breath. These experiences can feel overwhelming and may start to affect daily life, relationships, and overall well-being.
Counselling & Hypnotherapy provides a safe and supportive space to explore these feelings, understand triggers, and develop healthier coping strategies. With guidance, clients can learn practical tools to manage symptoms, build resilience, and regain a sense of calm and control in their everyday lives. With Hypnotherapy clients can get to the root of the problem and create positive shifts towards healthy wellbeing. Learn more:
People come to counselling for many reasons — stress, anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, or simply a sense that something isn’t right. Sometimes it’s about finding clarity during a difficult time; other times, it’s about healing from the past or making meaningful changes. Whatever bring...
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Offering Individual Mindfulness Coaching for your needs to include:
Mindfulness Coaching Methods/Meditation/Mantra & Solutions Focused Techniques
All Clients receive a Specific Individualised Plan (SIP) and Methods according to their particular need following an Initial Consultation.
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What is Coaching? ‘It is an ongoing partnership that helps clients produce fulfilling results in their personal and professional lives. Through the process of coaching, clients deepen their learning, improve their performance and enhance their quality of life. In each meeting, the client chooses the focus of the conversation, while the coach listens and contributes observations and questions. This interaction creates clarity and moves the client into action. Coaching accelerates the clients’s progress by providing greater focus and awareness of choice. Coaching concentrates on where clients are now, and what they are willing to do to get where they want to be in the future, recognising that results are a matter of the client’s intentions, choices and actions, supported by the coach’s efforts, and application of the coaching process’. Unlike therapy or counselling, coaching is primarily present-oriented.
The GROW model is used: It is the problem-space the clients want to explore via coaching. Example of topics include - social life, emotional health, mental well-being, career or changing a destructive habit.
G - GOAL - The clients turns a problem statement into a desired outcome
R - REALITY - The client explores the stituation and gains a fact-based picture of the their situation
O - OPTIONS - The client establishes a set of actions available to the them
W - WILL - The client chooses from a list of options those actions they can commit to
Anita Lennox - (BSc honours, P.G.C.E./PGdip) - has 5 years previous Mindfulness training, is a trained Mindfulness Coach/Teacher with a background in teaching children and young people. Her background is supporting children with special needs and mental health problems. She is now a trainee Therapeautic Mindfulness Counsellor for adults.
